I was clueless till some mutual friends mentioned after his house warming dinner.
I was in college and had lots of friends. When I went out with guys/girls… we were just having fun.
One day, I was done with work and going to meet my friend Peter. Henry was on his way to my job. I told him I left. I didn’t think much.
He took me out to dinner/ movies… I was still clueless. Then we all went to his new apartment for house warming.
the friends told me, he is an only child and was living at home till he met me. He took me out, then got an apt. of his own thinking I would become his girlfriend/wife…
well… I ran off, I was traveling with my friends, finishing college, just enjoyed being single … I was only 21/22…mutual friends told me he was 28 and wanted to get married.
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After all that friendly stalking, did she say yes?
As for most trouble, this one guy froze notes in ice cubes and expected me to wait for them to thaw to see what they said. He went to a lot of trouble for me to get bored and forgot about them while they melted.
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A guy spent 3 months pretending to be a good person so I would date him but after I turned him down, his true colours came out and I saw how bad he was.
It was my husband who was in the Navy at the time. I was a Hostess at the EM club. He was 19, I was 20. I had just bought my bitches Chevy Nova and I had my own apartment by the beach and a little hottie back then. I was sitting at a table with some sailor's when he walked by me on the dance floor and our eyes met and we smiled at each other. But since he was with some chick that night, we didn't get to talk or dance. The next day was Thanksgiving Day, and I spent it alone, and had a frozen turkey dinner. Time to get in my Nova and head fot the Navy base. I sat in the club all night hoping he would be there, but no. I sat alone just in case he did come. Finally at about 10:30 pm he walked in. He came right over to my table hoping I would be there too. I asked him why he came so late. He said he was playing poker with the guys to win some money to buy me some drinks. I laughed!! Then I told that is so funny because I don't drink! We fell in love right away and got married 8 weeks later 💕
Oh man, for me has been through friends and family asking favors of guys going out with me. Once they asked the guys out for me, the guys were embarrassed to be seen with me. That during class they would only pass notes 📝 to me. Or write me messages on MySpace.
The 2 brutal ones were:
1) At a putt putt golf arcade and some random group of guys approached me and said, one of their “friends liked me and were shy to meet me.” Then they pointed the direction where the guy was standing next to his friend and playing video games. And they told me to “go say hi to him”. That I walked over to him and his friend and said “hello 👋🏻 “. Which the guy nodded and give me the cold shoulder and I was standing there for 5 minutes waiting for something and I walked away embarrassed.
2) was a guy told me to wait after school for him. That I saw him with his group of friends, hanging out. I walked up to him and his friends looked at me. But he was too embarrassed to make eye contact with me. Then I walked away, sitting on the bench waiting 10-15 minutes. Till he was done talking to his friends.
I guess I’m one of those girls that makes the first move physically and is rejected.
I once rode a train two hours out of my way just to ask a girl out. She was married (but no ring)... I couldn't do it beforehand because she had on earphones and was listening to music and there was no opening until the train reached her station and she took them off. I wouldn't do that again though; I've learned since my mid 20s.
Also, nowadays ANY guy going through any effort to ask a girl out would count as "stalking," including your story there. The bitter sand-vagina'ed feminists have ruined it for everyone.The ways guys have asked me out: Get my phone number and text me. Ask a friend for the phone number. Befriend me on facebook and message me. And then the rest have been online dating just messaging there. I am not sure what would be the most troublesome of those :D, I have done the first and the last myself, more nerve-wrecking asking for the number in person for me.
But after all of that did you call her?
You can't make someone like or love you. If I have to "jump through hoops" to impress a girl, it's too much stress, and I don't want that.
I can't think of anything. 😂
I once traveled to Mexico City to see her.
I usually make the first move to be honest lol
Had sex with her sister
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