I've never had a boyfriend I just can't seem to connect or feel comfortable with them why?

[Anonymous]

[boggboss]

Why do u feel that way hard to know without context

[Asker]

I just don't have fun with them and feels like a chore to talk with them

[boggboss]

Maybe u have not found someone u are intrested in

[Asker]

Yeah probably not I'm running out of time aswell

[boggboss]

And what are u doing to find people u might like

[Asker]

These are people that approached me

[boggboss]

So u know your running out of time in your words but still just wait to be approached?

[Asker]

I feel stupid tho I don't think I'm that good looking

[boggboss]

Then thats probobly the first thing u should work on because that feeling won't just magically vanish if u are in a relationship

[Asker]

Yeah thats true I think I've missed my time tbh I'm too old

[boggboss]

If thats what u think then I won't argue with u but at that point why are u trying u can't have both think your too old and ugly but still try and get upset it ain't working

[Asker]

Yeah I know not sure what I should do really

[boggboss]

Think u should decide how u really feel and go from their

[Asker]

It'd got harder now I don't have many options when I was younger

[Asker]

Its**

[boggboss]

OK so work with what u got plus its not like u have been asking people out so how would u know your options

[Asker]

There was one guy I liked but he kept dropping me when somone better come around

[boggboss]

So clearly he didn't like u and because u made yourself a option he would not respect u

[Asker]

Yeah I know never again

[boggboss]

Fair enough

[Asker]

He will sometimes pop up from time to time

[boggboss]

U should have him blocked so he can't

[Asker]

I know will weird not sure why be comes back

[boggboss]

Because u made yourself a option in the past so u might do it again

[Asker]

I just ignore him

[boggboss]

Good I guess

[Asker]

It's weird how he's single because he dates so much and always on tinder

[boggboss]

He is single because he wants to have fun by the sounds of it

[Asker]

Yeah deffo seems it

[Cowboy6666]

The just make them as friends only and talk with them :)

[Cowboy6666]

Then*
by the way where you from?

[Asker]

Scottish Highlands

[Cowboy6666]

ever had sex with any guy?

[Asker]

Yeah I have I've had w causal guys and a bunch of guys where it didn't go anywhere

[Asker]

2 casual* the sex was awkward tho because I didn't really like them that much 🤣🤣

[Cowboy6666]

you haven't met the right guy yet ;)

[Asker]

I'm like 30 in August I don't think I will lol

[Cowboy6666]

follow my profile, will talk there

[In_Trance]

how would anyone know this but you? what's missing?

[Gwenhwyfar]

Ever been asked out? Or hooked up?

[Anonymous]

Are you saying you've never dated anyone?

[Asker]

Only 2 guys casually

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, how long was the longest relationship or time you dated someone?

[Asker]

4 almost five the other one was a one night stand but he was interested but the distance was too much

[Opinion Owner]

4 years?

[Asker]

Yes that's right

[Opinion Owner]

That sounds like to me he was your ex-boyfriend, how come you're implying that you've never had a boyfriend then?

[Anonymous]

Maybe your asexual?

[Asker]

I find attractive but I don't feel comfortable