Would you date an attractive trans person (someone who changed their gender they were assigned to at birth)?

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Seinna · Accepted Answer

I'm Christian so I don't think I could.

Realistically though, even when I was an atheist I might be open to dating but then... I want children and I want them with my partner. Also I want my children to have a father. Could another woman really replace a man in the house? I doubt it would last enough for me to seriously commit.

Also, trans people have a lot of mental problems which I wouldn't know how to handle. They often follow ideologies that work against them but they're too stubborn to admit it. They are more likely to commit suicide for example and transitioning doesn't seem to alleviate it. Often times it causes it. It's a big baggage to accept in someone who is not exactly what you want, which in my case is a straight man.

Bottom line is, I feel if I truly loved a trans person inevitably I'd try to find a way for them to accept who they really are, ie. treat their brain rathern than their body, which would end our relationship.

melanieeeB · Accepted Answer

NO ugh I slowly really hate that type question. Attractiveness doesn't change that the person is still trans. I'm not into women.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

You are not assigned a a gender at birth. Your sex is determined by your 23rd chromosomes at conception and it cannot thereafter be changed. You can surgically alter your appearance but your sex remains the same.

No, I am not dating a guy who tries to look like a girl.

Mahito · Answer

Oh god no! You can have all of that for yourself.

I would never date a trans gender or teach my kids trans gender, because it is just cross dressing fetish you’re not a girl trapped in man’s body or boy trapped in girls body, that’s the government brain washing kids to sterilize themselves and be unable to reproduce. They don’t want poor people having kids that’s why transgender surgery is supported by Medicaid and it will pay for the surgery.

People that get usually regret it because the men that get the surgery they have to keep themselves very and wash and do a lot of maintenance and they can get very bad infections. Women who turn into see guys not holding the doors for them anymore and realize how shitty it is for men and want to go back. That’s why trans gender high suicide rate.

I am making money so I can protect I can protect my child and they can pass on my seed. I know it is not nice to think about and you don’t want to hear me say this but it is true. It’s just a fetish.

Boys and girls want to be Superman when they and be a lot of silly things as a kid you as the parent needs to tell them it is not okay to stay up late eat ice cream and play video games all day. It’s your job to protect from transgender so they don’t end up sterilized by the government that you didn’t protect them from, and end up hurting themselves because you were careless and said you support trans gender because you want people to think you’re a good person. I don’t care what people say about I will protect my kids crazy people.

That trans gender stuff I don’t do that. But it’s your life your seed so enjoy it while it last.

BluishGaze · Answer

No.

Trans women, though they may look very lovely, are not the kind of people I would want to date.

1) I want to date a GENUINE female that has lived a genuine female experience that is unique to females.

2) Now, I'm going to generalize here based on my observation, and this video's admission:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/xGG3G12aJJk

Trans women often tend to overdo their "femininity." Perhaps this is because (as Ms. Dawn admits) they're making up for what they lacked in their "previous life." Like an overcompensation of femininity. In fact, I'm curious if this level of focus on femininity would get in the way of them developing a unique personality, and not just a generic or exaggerated female stereotype.

3) Yes, I would like to be able to have biological children with her. As we watch our kids grow, I want to be able to turn to my wife and say "she takes after you, Honey!"

Anyway, unrelated, I really wish people would stop saying we were "assigned" a gender at birth. You were NOT assigned a gender, your SEX is what's observed. I thought gender and sex were supposed to be two different things...

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't have a problem being friends with a trans man, but if I were seriously interested in a love relationship, I don't want to have sex with a man who has female genitalia as most trans men do because the surgery to create a "penis" doesn't create a regular working organ. I'd like to have sex with a biologically intact and functional male.

I would think similar issues would occur with a trans woman. The vagina that's created is made from some tissues taken from the penis, but they don't lubricate or work like an actual vagina. For the rest of this person's life they have to use devices to keep their created vagina from closing up.

SEx is only one aspect of a person's life and these trans people may be lovely persons who are otherwise appropriate partners. But I think sex is part of a 360 degree relationship. For some people, this isn't important and can be dispensed with. In that case, a trans person is just as good as a biological male or female. In my case, it wouldn't work.

I don't want to have sex with someone with female genitalia, or a very large clitoris. Plastic surgery can only do so much. I wish these folk all the luck in the world, however.

Anonymous · Answer

Friends with trans/lbtq, sure.
Supporting trans/lbtq people, absolutely.

Dating trans/lbtq, hell no.
Teaching my future kids to be trans, hell no.

If my kids somehow end up being trans without me knowing... I guess I will support and protect them and let them continue to be happy as long as they don't become criminals/danger to themself and other. I really hope that my future kids to be straight forever though.

I m only attracted to straight biological men who see themself as men and not other gender.
I can't and don't want to kiss a woman. I remember that my mom used to kiss me as a baby like parents do, I hated it and she stopped... thanks God for that.
I can only kiss a girl on the cheek.
If a girl (trans, bisexual... etc) kiss me on the lips, I swear I m going to puke.🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮

I m sorry for being rude, but I m not sorry for being straight and for wanting my family to be straight.

You be you, I m gonna be me.

gfedcba · Answer

A transgender "woman" on a recent episode of Naked and Afraid had been out 21 days without her hormones & started growing a beard again... my experience has been it's more like someone's wearing a Halloween costume, dressed as a woman, only to a more in-depth extent - take away all the smoke & mirrors (medication, implants, etc.) much of "her" will return to being a man, because, biologically, she'll always be one underneath, no matter how much "she" wants to pretend - feeling uncomfortable being in a situation doesn't change the reality it may be ultimately inescapable.

Moose304 · Answer

In my view as a male if you don't have XX chromosomes you are not a female. I don't care what is or is not between the legs. I won't say the country or the time frame. I will just say this man was sent to prison and is still there. This man had gone to a hotel with another person that said they were a female. This person had sex-change surgery. After the act somehow he found out the history and chased this person out of the hotel down the street and shot them several times. Between this bullshit and all the STDs going around Mr. Johnson does NOT go near anybody I don't fully know already!

idkwhatsreal · Answer

I probably would have sex with a trans girl. Could be hot. I would have some strict standards though. Like they would have to completely look the part. And be sexy in my eyes. I wouldn’t want it switching on me from different points of view. Or see a 5 o’clock shadow after a while or something. But yea it’s definitely more of kink that I might try if the circumstances were right. But no dating

Lionman95 · Answer

No not only because I´m not attracted to dicks I also don´t believe that gender is something that is socially constructed and that can be changed by me even if I wanted to.
I could be friends maybe with this person but I´ve never felt attracted to them.

Anonymous · Answer

No. I find it extremely odd that if a woman gets breast implants she’s shamed and her boobs are ridiculed. Why? Because her boobs are bigger? She’s still a woman or girl regardless with a vagina. A dude who gets a sex change and does that is not a real woman. People can give this comment a ton of thumbs down 👎 or dislikes.

But it goes to show me the whole LGBTQ+ is not about love it’s about everyone accepting them. I can accept them for who they are having rights in court or in the work place. But in the dating world I have preferences and I would not date or marry a trans, I’d rather be single. I’m not going to force my views on people who are trans or gay and I expect the same.

Gigi2019 · Answer

I have no desire to date a female-to-male trans person. Their gender in not real (to me). Additionally, in a SHTF situation, they are going to be screwed good unless they have a huge stockpile of testosterone shots to maintain the illusion.

TyLeeAndPink · Answer

I have plenty of transgender friends and acquaintances, and have nothing against them. They are very important to me. However, I would never date a transgender person. I'd like a cisgender man. As a straight woman, I can be a little more lenient with romantic orientation, because even if he also likes men, what's important to me is that he cares about ME. I can date a hetero, bi, or pan guy, but not transgender.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I wouldn't have a problem going out with them, I've already gone out with one a few times, but, I wouldn't be interested in them romantically. Sexually MAYBE, but I kinda doubt it (I'm pretty sure I'd have to be a romantic thing before I can make it sexual).

globetrotter22 · Answer

They are pushing this shit more and more and more. The end goal is label anyone who doesn’t want to date a trans person a “transphobe” despite the person otherwise having no problem with trans people.

Don’t say “yes” just to be nice. You can’t change dating preferences.

TwinkleLily5 · Answer

Date who you want as long as it makes you happy. But I consider a Trans person as the gender they was born with and not Transitioned into. I’m hetero so I prefer the opposite sex (as the sex they were born as)

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t really see the relevance of adding in attractive or not. Like somehow if the person is attractive it makes a difference.
No I wouldn’t. And that doesn’t make me transphobic.
It’s sort of like if someone says if you wouldn’t date someone of the same sex you are homophobic.
i think most people would not be open to this. But will be interesting to read the comments.

Uptowngirl88 · Answer

NOOOO, FOR THE 100TH TIME STOP ASKING THIS QUESTION ON GAG. NOT INTERESTED IN A WOMAN WHO TRIES TO BE A MAN. ITS WEIRD, DEMONIC, AND A MENTAL ILLNESS. GET HELP FOR YOUR DEMONS

Anonymous · Answer

Not happening. I can always tell someone is trans. The person in the above photo, for example, named Mathilda Hogberg, I can easily tell they're transgender and not a biological female.

As someone with Schizophrenia, it blows my mind that everyone is just pretending that these are "real" women. I wouldn't want someone to pretend that my hallucinations are real. That wouldn't be helpful AT ALL. It would just reinforce my sickness and make me more delusional.

XXblack88 · Answer

No I wouldn't however a lot of trans people don't tell you they're trans when dating witch I have a problem with. Cause it's not giving the other person the option to say if there ok with dating a trans or not.

petitedollbabee · Answer

Yep. Aslong as their personality is attractive and there’s chemistry, I don’t care what’s in their pants.

The1Girl · Answer

If they had a great personality and I found them attractive, sure. The only issue I could see cropping up is if I want to have children in future, I'm not sure what the situation is with that.

Anonymous · Answer

I honestly think I would but I don't know if I could get passed everyone judging me. But I know 100 years from now are kids kids are going to laugh at us with sick eyes that we were so evil. Do we not do that with people from slave times? It is ignorance but we do it.

But yeah if they looked like a girl I would be curious what it feels like to dominant them.

Yunganddumb6765 · Answer

Nope. I would only want to have sex with a biological female, and I think if trans people are having sex with straight people without telling them it should be a crime. The same way it's considered rape to lie to a woman about your profession, then they have sex with you thinking that you're a rich doctor or something. That's rape.

Anonymous · Answer

No, Because im not gay. Plus i want to be with someone who can actually have children with me who are biologically hers and mine.. Not someone who chose to mutilate their body, take drugs, so they can lie to everyone about their gender, and steal things like scholarships from women.. Fuck that.

cth96190 · Answer

No, because a person cannot change their gender.
They would still have XY chromesomes in their DNA, which would make him a surgically mutilated gay man in a dress.
Transgendersim is mental illness. The delusion should not be pandered to.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope absolutely not cause to me a Trans woman is still a man he just has on a permanent mask the makes him look like a woman. You are what you was born in this world as no matter how much you may want to change it cause man with all his technology can't make a man a woman or vise versa that can only make you look the part. Sorry but that's facts! 😉😜😝

molonski2 · Answer

We have a plethora of them here ( Thailand ) and NO NO WAY , some bloke dressed as a girl , remains a bloke , same applies to a TOM , they can date each other , but a " Gattoy " is NEVER on the agenda , post opp or not --NO WAY.

julesrod98 · Answer

Male to female trans, yes. Post-op boobs, they're pretty, but still have cock, yes.

hahahmm · Answer

Nah. That would be like paying new car prices for a cardboard model of a car. No matter how good that paper car looks it's a bad deal.

In_Trance · Answer

Never

MCheetah · Answer

No, because they are just men with the (often poor) appearance of women and I am not attracted to men or penises.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

A friend of mine is Trans and I took her on a date when lockdown lifted. she’s pretty and is now dating another friend of mine.

pervertedjester · Answer

No. Also anyone who dates a "trans" better have that spelled out to them directly and up front. I think that'd be a dangerous omission and we'd see crimes of passion spike if they didn't have a moment of truth before the bedroom.

Pyrofox · Answer

If they are hotter and nicer than the real thing its a effing win win than being with someone I'd probably end up hating cause we fell in love just cause the sex was good.,

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. A trans woman is still a woman, a trans man is still a man. Above everything, I’m attracted to personality

Ez-Bri-Z · Answer

Yep, 100% I would date a transman or transwoman. Doesn't matter as long as they have a personality that I like.

Wade12345 · Answer

You can tell 38 gay guys on this poll never had real pussy in their lives!!

Anonymous · Answer

Transgender/transexual whatever you want to be called nowadays is unnatural. Like literally. You are changing what you naturally are. Stop trying to be something you're not. Jeez.

Catlover1999 · Answer

I watch her videos. And yeah, she’s attractive and passes well.

snowboarder720 · Answer

I wouldn’t date someone who is trans because that’s not who I’m attracted to. Power to the trans community tho!

Sour-rose · Answer

Trans dudes tho please. <3  Some trans ladies are ladies but don't exactly pass.  (you mad? Then sue me.)

Anonymous · Answer

Of course, but then again I am not insecure like most people.

Logan_V96 · Answer

No, that would make me a homosexual, which I am not.

menina · Answer

I would be friends with a transgender person but I would never date them.

Berethor · Answer

Nope, if she was born as a male then I am not interested, it's a huge turn-off.

skytatoe · Answer

Well not knowingly, kids might be an issue, and its still a dude in then end, I dont think I'd be attracted. But you know I've never been put in that situation so if it happens I'll let you know ^^

ComradeCarabao · Answer

Yeah, transsexual women (on average) put more effort into how they look than the genetic females of today; true transsexual women (not autogynephile types) tend to be hyperfeminine and sexy.

Anonymous · Answer

No because im not into guys who dress like girls... I want a MAN and only a MAN!

Brooklynbella520 · Answer

If they were trust worthy and more than just attractive yes. Everybody deserves to be loved. I wouldn’t be focused on who they used to be just who they are now and the fact that I love them in the moment.

jshm2 · Answer

There are no "attractive" trans people. People just go out of morbid curiosity.

TruthBringer · Answer

I only date real women. A trans person does not fit in that category

Mac-One · Answer

Possibly would if she had fully transitioned and I did not know the difference. Don't know how I would react once I learned the difference.

humanearth · Answer

Wish you had a I don't know or a maybe button I was never put in a such a spot before. So I don't know how to answer

AndrésC64 · Answer

Hard no. I don't want someone who doesn't even know what their gender is. And I certainly don't want to date someone with a dick, I'm not gay.

RationalMale · Answer

No, I couldn't. No matter how the person looked, hell they could have had plastic surgery to look like Gina Carano's younger twin--I'd always know that person was actually a man.

007kingifrit · Answer

looks or not they are mentally ill and lying to me inherently by being trans. you are the sex you were born as, gender doesn't exist. and a trans girl is still a man... and can't get pregnant

Koneko911 · Answer

Absolutely. If I like you I like you, I don't know what sex you are

Commander_Red · Answer

I'm only attracted to CIS males. If someone tells me they are transgender, that's an immediate NO, but I hope they do find someone that doesn't mind.

SAMI_DABBAB · Answer

Not gonna post what I think is gonna happen because I will never know until I'm attracted to such person

Anonymous · Answer

Yes!

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