Would you date an attractive trans person (someone who changed their gender they were assigned to at birth)?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Seinna]

I'm Christian so I don't think I could.

Realistically though, even when I was an atheist I might be open to dating but then... I want children and I want them with my partner. Also I want my children to have a father. Could another woman really replace a man in the house? I doubt it would last enough for me to seriously commit.

Also, trans people have a lot of mental problems which I wouldn't know how to handle. They often follow ideologies that work against them but they're too stubborn to admit it. They are more likely to commit suicide for example and transitioning doesn't seem to alleviate it. Often times it causes it. It's a big baggage to accept in someone who is not exactly what you want, which in my case is a straight man.

Bottom line is, I feel if I truly loved a trans person inevitably I'd try to find a way for them to accept who they really are, ie. treat their brain rathern than their body, which would end our relationship.

[woman_2004]

I’m a Christian too and I agree with this x

[melanieeeB]

NO ugh I slowly really hate that type question. Attractiveness doesn't change that the person is still trans. I'm not into women.

[snowboarder720]

To clarify are you only not attracted to cis women?

[OlderAndWiser]

You are not assigned a a gender at birth. Your sex is determined by your 23rd chromosomes at conception and it cannot thereafter be changed. You can surgically alter your appearance but your sex remains the same.

No, I am not dating a guy who tries to look like a girl.

[JustiReno]

Hermaphrodites are sterile so they deserve to be happy sure? But anything else I don’t think is my business.

[OlderAndWiser]

@JustiReno I don't care what people do with their genitals behind closed doors as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult. But don't come at me pretending to be a girl if you are a sex change guy. That certainly is my business!

[JustiReno]

Yeah I feel you I’m walking if I even suspect that. Here in Seattle people be taking their kids to gay pride tho n we got 🏳️‍🌈flags all over on businesses cars and houses

[OlderAndWiser]

@JustiReno I'm glad to not be on the Left Coast!

[JustiReno]

We went down the Left Hand Path for sure

[Explorer91]

Well said. I totally respect if people want to do whatever they want with their bodies and life. But it doesn’t change the facts.

[snowboarder720]

@OlderAndWiser it’s funny how you picked that name for yourself but you don’t know the difference between someone’s sex and someone’s gender.

[Lionman95]

@snowboarder720 I´d rather say he doesn´t believe that there is a difference. Not everybody on this earth has bought into the gender theory of Judith Butler and others.

[JustiReno]

@Lionman95 wow I just looked this up they for real just made gender into some confusing mess of a thing when before it was straight and clear. So you’re telling me women in Saudi Arabia and women in the UK are a different gender because they vastly different social structures?

[snowboarder720]

@JustiReno Gender has had that same definition since the 70s so “just made gender…” isn’t really a new thing.
Gender is how that person perceives themselves to society. Sex is biological construct (chromosomes, genitalia, etc).

[JustiReno]

@snowboarder720 🤯 gender is self identifying and on some spectrum or infinite in expressive form? I thought it meant Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve or chicken and the egg you know? The basic pillars of my understanding of life and nature are corroding before my eyes excuse me while I jump off a bridge

[snowboarder720]

@JustiReno yes, exactly. Some people can wear masculine clothes and then wear feminine clothes the very next day with a change of personality depending on their mood, which makes them non binary where they aren’t exactly male nor female gendered.

[OlderAndWiser]

@snowboarder720 If I am mentally ill and say that I identify as an eagle, does that make me an eagle? I realize that leftists think they are intellectually superior to anyone who disagrees wth them, but you should select someone of lesser stature if you want to feel superior. I can compete with anyone.

But I also recognize that there is nothing ever accomplished with trying to debate a leftist, so respond if you must (and I suspect you will) and I will allow you to have the last word.

[snowboarder720]

@OlderAndWiser if you’re mentally you go see a therapist. It honestly doesn’t surprise me that you’re open to change as most baby boomers aren’t and could care less about mental health.
If you weren’t open to discuss with the public you wouldn’t post your opinion.

[JustiReno]

@snowboarder720 I think @OlderAndWiser is right and you should respect his choice to identify as the eagle 🦅 gender. Gender is fluid and non definable. How is eagle not a gender? They have claws, claws are sexy. Rawwwr

[TruthBringer]

@OlderAndWiser Absolutely well spoken!

[woman_2004]

@OlderAndWiser Hmmmm I see you have awaken from the Matrix … 👀

[OlderAndWiser]

@woman_2004 I dd not see that movie so if you have a comment to make, please make it openly and directly.

[woman_2004]

@OlderAndWiser

Matrix: It depicts a dystopian future in which humanity is unknowingly trapped inside a simulated reality, the Matrix, which intelligent machines have created to distract humans from reality.

What does this have to do with you?
The main character, Neo, escape “the real world” and their lies with a red pill and saw reality how it truly was. But majority of people like him didn’t awaken. Therefore, I applaud you for waking up to see how the world we live is like the Matrix. Definitely recommend you see it. x

[OlderAndWiser]

@woman_2004 I am so accustomed to having my opinions attacked by the triggered left on this site that I am always on guard. In any event, I appreciate your kind words.

[Mahito]

Oh god no! You can have all of that for yourself.


I would never date a trans gender or teach my kids trans gender, because it is just cross dressing fetish you’re not a girl trapped in man’s body or boy trapped in girls body, that’s the government brain washing kids to sterilize themselves and be unable to reproduce. They don’t want poor people having kids that’s why transgender surgery is supported by Medicaid and it will pay for the surgery.


People that get usually regret it because the men that get the surgery they have to keep themselves very and wash and do a lot of maintenance and they can get very bad infections. Women who turn into see guys not holding the doors for them anymore and realize how shitty it is for men and want to go back. That’s why trans gender high suicide rate.


I am making money so I can protect I can protect my child and they can pass on my seed. I know it is not nice to think about and you don’t want to hear me say this but it is true. It’s just a fetish.


Boys and girls want to be Superman when they and be a lot of silly things as a kid you as the parent needs to tell them it is not okay to stay up late eat ice cream and play video games all day. It’s your job to protect from transgender so they don’t end up sterilized by the government that you didn’t protect them from, and end up hurting themselves because you were careless and said you support trans gender because you want people to think you’re a good person. I don’t care what people say about I will protect my kids crazy people.


That trans gender stuff I don’t do that. But it’s your life your seed so enjoy it while it last.

[BluishGaze]

No.

Trans women, though they may look very lovely, are not the kind of people I would want to date.

1) I want to date a GENUINE female that has lived a genuine female experience that is unique to females.

2) Now, I'm going to generalize here based on my observation, and this video's admission:

https://www.youtube.com/embed/xGG3G12aJJk

Trans women often tend to overdo their "femininity." Perhaps this is because (as Ms. Dawn admits) they're making up for what they lacked in their "previous life." Like an overcompensation of femininity. In fact, I'm curious if this level of focus on femininity would get in the way of them developing a unique personality, and not just a generic or exaggerated female stereotype.

3) Yes, I would like to be able to have biological children with her. As we watch our kids grow, I want to be able to turn to my wife and say "she takes after you, Honey!"

Anyway, unrelated, I really wish people would stop saying we were "assigned" a gender at birth. You were NOT assigned a gender, your SEX is what's observed. I thought gender and sex were supposed to be two different things...

[Gigi2019]

Where would these fake men and women be without hormone shots? Back how God made them in the first place. Satan rules this world of sin and illusion. Don't fall for it.

[Gigi2019]

*back "to" how God made them

[ComradeCarabao]

It's a matter of personal taste, but I find their over-the-top femininity to be incredibly sexy.

[Gigi2019]

@ComradeCarabao Which would you rather experience? A natural-born woman who is over-the-top sexy or someone who was born a male who is over-the-top sexy (they have to push the envelope)?

[ComradeCarabao]

@Gigi2019 In my case, I'm exclusively attracted to (at the very least) above average femininity; in this day and age, it's quite rare to see a natural-born woman who's hyperfeminine. There are many theories as to why natural-born women are becoming less feminine, but hyperfeminine behavior/dress are definitely looked down upon by most modern natural-born women. Transsexual women have apparently always been known to have hyperfeminine personalities and wear more provocative attire, but the technology of today allows them to look exactly like what a heterosexual man wants to see. I'm not saying that looking like a "fantasy chick" is something natural-born women should aspire to do, but transsexual women (often having fewer career options) use sex appeal to their advantage.

[Gigi2019]

@ComradeCarabao So you're saying that you're a "straight" man whose attracted to other men because real women aren't feminine enough? Okay. Irony abounds, but, do you.

[Gigi2019]

*who's

[ComradeCarabao]

Transsexual women put much more effort into their femininity/hotness than natural-born women do; while natural-born women act like it's a crime to look sexy for the eyes of heterosexual men, transsexual women will transform themselves into "fantasy chicks."

[Gigi2019]

@ComradeCarabao Surprise, surpise. Men desperate for acceptance as a real woman know exactly how to play to queer/straight men's slutty fantasies. I'm sure they know how to give (literally) mind-blowing bjs too. Why? Because they have (or had) the same junk! Your argument is like a straight woman saying that she prefers a woman dressed up as a man vs a real man because they know how to use a dildo whereas real men have no idea how to use the equipment they were born with. If I were one of those women, claiming to be straight while sleeping with women who wear strap-ons, I would be kidding myself about what my real sexuality is. You can like to fuck men all you want, but please, do not drag natural-born women into your existential crisis. "We" are not a factor in your true sexual identity.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't have a problem being friends with a trans man, but if I were seriously interested in a love relationship, I don't want to have sex with a man who has female genitalia as most trans men do because the surgery to create a "penis" doesn't create a regular working organ. I'd like to have sex with a biologically intact and functional male.

I would think similar issues would occur with a trans woman. The vagina that's created is made from some tissues taken from the penis, but they don't lubricate or work like an actual vagina. For the rest of this person's life they have to use devices to keep their created vagina from closing up.

SEx is only one aspect of a person's life and these trans people may be lovely persons who are otherwise appropriate partners. But I think sex is part of a 360 degree relationship. For some people, this isn't important and can be dispensed with. In that case, a trans person is just as good as a biological male or female. In my case, it wouldn't work.

I don't want to have sex with someone with female genitalia, or a very large clitoris. Plastic surgery can only do so much. I wish these folk all the luck in the world, however.

[Anonymous]

Friends with trans/lbtq, sure.
Supporting trans/lbtq people, absolutely.

Dating trans/lbtq, hell no.
Teaching my future kids to be trans, hell no.

If my kids somehow end up being trans without me knowing... I guess I will support and protect them and let them continue to be happy as long as they don't become criminals/danger to themself and other. I really hope that my future kids to be straight forever though.

I m only attracted to straight biological men who see themself as men and not other gender.
I can't and don't want to kiss a woman. I remember that my mom used to kiss me as a baby like parents do, I hated it and she stopped... thanks God for that.
I can only kiss a girl on the cheek.
If a girl (trans, bisexual... etc) kiss me on the lips, I swear I m going to puke.🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮

I m sorry for being rude, but I m not sorry for being straight and for wanting my family to be straight.

You be you, I m gonna be me.

[gfedcba]

A transgender "woman" on a recent episode of Naked and Afraid had been out 21 days without her hormones & started growing a beard again... my experience has been it's more like someone's wearing a Halloween costume, dressed as a woman, only to a more in-depth extent - take away all the smoke & mirrors (medication, implants, etc.) much of "her" will return to being a man, because, biologically, she'll always be one underneath, no matter how much "she" wants to pretend - feeling uncomfortable being in a situation doesn't change the reality it may be ultimately inescapable.

[Moose304]

In my view as a male if you don't have XX chromosomes you are not a female. I don't care what is or is not between the legs. I won't say the country or the time frame. I will just say this man was sent to prison and is still there. This man had gone to a hotel with another person that said they were a female. This person had sex-change surgery. After the act somehow he found out the history and chased this person out of the hotel down the street and shot them several times. Between this bullshit and all the STDs going around Mr. Johnson does NOT go near anybody I don't fully know already!

[idkwhatsreal]

I probably would have sex with a trans girl. Could be hot. I would have some strict standards though. Like they would have to completely look the part. And be sexy in my eyes. I wouldn’t want it switching on me from different points of view. Or see a 5 o’clock shadow after a while or something. But yea it’s definitely more of kink that I might try if the circumstances were right. But no dating

[Lionman95]

No not only because I´m not attracted to dicks I also don´t believe that gender is something that is socially constructed and that can be changed by me even if I wanted to.
I could be friends maybe with this person but I´ve never felt attracted to them.

[Anonymous]

No. I find it extremely odd that if a woman gets breast implants she’s shamed and her boobs are ridiculed. Why? Because her boobs are bigger? She’s still a woman or girl regardless with a vagina. A dude who gets a sex change and does that is not a real woman. People can give this comment a ton of thumbs down 👎 or dislikes.

But it goes to show me the whole LGBTQ+ is not about love it’s about everyone accepting them. I can accept them for who they are having rights in court or in the work place. But in the dating world I have preferences and I would not date or marry a trans, I’d rather be single. I’m not going to force my views on people who are trans or gay and I expect the same.

[Gigi2019]

I have no desire to date a female-to-male trans person. Their gender in not real (to me). Additionally, in a SHTF situation, they are going to be screwed good unless they have a huge stockpile of testosterone shots to maintain the illusion.

[Gigi2019]

I am not attempting to hurt anyone's feelings. It is what it is.

[TyLeeAndPink]

I have plenty of transgender friends and acquaintances, and have nothing against them. They are very important to me. However, I would never date a transgender person. I'd like a cisgender man. As a straight woman, I can be a little more lenient with romantic orientation, because even if he also likes men, what's important to me is that he cares about ME. I can date a hetero, bi, or pan guy, but not transgender.

[FunkyMonkee]

I wouldn't have a problem going out with them, I've already gone out with one a few times, but, I wouldn't be interested in them romantically. Sexually MAYBE, but I kinda doubt it (I'm pretty sure I'd have to be a romantic thing before I can make it sexual).

[globetrotter22]

Have you always been this way?

[FunkyMonkee]

@globetrotter22 Needing to be in love with someone to fuck them? No. It never stopped me before until about 3 years ago.

[globetrotter22]

They are pushing this shit more and more and more. The end goal is label anyone who doesn’t want to date a trans person a “transphobe” despite the person otherwise having no problem with trans people.

Don’t say “yes” just to be nice. You can’t change dating preferences.

[JustiReno]

It’s the Tavistock Institute!!! Let’s burn some booooooks!!!

[globetrotter22]

@JustiReno tavistock institute?

[JustiReno]

That’s deep in the weeds bro how willing you go to chase the white rabbit 🐇

[globetrotter22]

@JustiReno what is this world coming to? Smdh

[JustiReno]

Bro the Loch Ness monster is Aleister Crowley that 🐐 fucking 😈, and Led Zeppelin smdh the world is going to hell and our grandparents know it ⛪️

[Explorer91]

Yes exactly. Or being called a trans phone because you are angry people who are born men with man body structures. Male height. Male bones. Male lung capacity. Male neck width. Can compete in female sports because they have had genital reconfiguration and hormones.
It’s ridiculous.

[globetrotter22]

@Explorer91 what was radical 5 years ago is mainstream today and what is radical today will be mainstream in 5 years.

We SERIOUSLY need to draw the line here. This is abhorrent.

[TwinkleLily5]

Date who you want as long as it makes you happy. But I consider a Trans person as the gender they was born with and not Transitioned into. I’m hetero so I prefer the opposite sex (as the sex they were born as)

[Anonymous]

I don’t really see the relevance of adding in attractive or not. Like somehow if the person is attractive it makes a difference.
No I wouldn’t. And that doesn’t make me transphobic.
It’s sort of like if someone says if you wouldn’t date someone of the same sex you are homophobic.
i think most people would not be open to this. But will be interesting to read the comments.

[Uptowngirl88]

NOOOO, FOR THE 100TH TIME STOP ASKING THIS QUESTION ON GAG. NOT INTERESTED IN A WOMAN WHO TRIES TO BE A MAN. ITS WEIRD, DEMONIC, AND A MENTAL ILLNESS. GET HELP FOR YOUR DEMONS

[Mac-One]

@Uptowngirl88 Would not date an FTM person if she had fully transitioned as I am not interested in a person with a penis. I might if she still had her female parts and just liked to present as a male.

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

PERIOD

[Uptowngirl88]

Girrrrl😂😂 these folks crazy
The same person asked this question 5x last week now asking as an anon like our opinions give change

[Sincerly_KittyCat]

Lmaoooo I love how you have no filter, so fearless

[Anonymous]

Not happening. I can always tell someone is trans. The person in the above photo, for example, named Mathilda Hogberg, I can easily tell they're transgender and not a biological female.

As someone with Schizophrenia, it blows my mind that everyone is just pretending that these are "real" women. I wouldn't want someone to pretend that my hallucinations are real. That wouldn't be helpful AT ALL. It would just reinforce my sickness and make me more delusional.

[petitedollbabee]

Yep. Aslong as their personality is attractive and there’s chemistry, I don’t care what’s in their pants.

[Asker]

Or what’s NOT in thier pants?

[petitedollbabee]

Unless they’ve completely removed all genitalia, there’ll be something in their pants. Whether it’s male or female parts, I don’t care, I’ll make it work with my own parts. So I don’t understand the point in your reply.

[The1Girl]

If they had a great personality and I found them attractive, sure. The only issue I could see cropping up is if I want to have children in future, I'm not sure what the situation is with that.