Why is it whenever you ask a woman what she finds attractive in a man she never ends up dating a man that she describes?

[Anonymous]

Woman: "I love men who treat me well"
The same woman : Dates the biggest douchebag in school

[bamesjond0069]

Because she wants the bad boy to treat her good. Im a huge douche bag. Think like Trump level personality. I go around talking shit like: if you ever payed for onlyfans or have an only fans you're trash. If you play video games you're a loser. Then my life is relatively epic. So it sounds like im always bragging just to talk about normal stuff. However my girlfriend gets a different side of me i spoil her and open her door and say cute things to her etc. Her and all my exgfs loved this about me. Literally everyone who knows me says im hella sweet or a huge asshole and they can't stand me.

[bingbongbangbung]

So you're faking it until you make it

[bamesjond0069]

@bingbongbangbung not sure what thats supposed to mean.

[Anonymous]

Men can be really good at hiding their true intentions and their true face in the beginning. That, and love bombing.

That, and maybe the girl/woman has some issues where she's not ready yet.