Crush snapped me, saying that he hopes I am well. We talked for a while, before he said that after Easter break he wants to get together.
The next day, one of his female friends found out he and I have been talking. She came up to me and wanted a girl chat and just wanted to tell me that he can be a hit or miss. That he basically cheated on his girlfriend while she was in New York, but he didn't really do anything either so he technically didn't cheat. But sophomore year, he talked to her for a month, then ghosted her. Then he was taking to someone last December and ghosted her too. She said he seems like he's grown up since then, she just wanted to give me a heads up that he's in his "player stage." Then we hugged it out 🤢🤮
This is the first time I've heard anyone say anything bad about him. Everyone tells me he is a really nice guy and shy.
When I talked to him on Thursday, he said he was going to a show that I'm working today. After the show, everyone usually goes out to talk to their friends. I know I'm not in the show so no one's coming to see me, but I feel like I'm being rude if I don't go out and say hi, knowing he's going to be there. But if I do go out there, the rumors are just going to get worse.
What should I do?
The next day, one of his female friends found out he and I have been talking. She came up to me and wanted a girl chat and just wanted to tell me that he can be a hit or miss. That he basically cheated on his girlfriend while she was in New York, but he didn't really do anything either so he technically didn't cheat. But sophomore year, he talked to her for a month, then ghosted her. Then he was taking to someone last December and ghosted her too. She said he seems like he's grown up since then, she just wanted to give me a heads up that he's in his "player stage." Then we hugged it out 🤢🤮
This is the first time I've heard anyone say anything bad about him. Everyone tells me he is a really nice guy and shy.
When I talked to him on Thursday, he said he was going to a show that I'm working today. After the show, everyone usually goes out to talk to their friends. I know I'm not in the show so no one's coming to see me, but I feel like I'm being rude if I don't go out and say hi, knowing he's going to be there. But if I do go out there, the rumors are just going to get worse.
What should I do?
