Is my guy friend cheating because he married his first ever girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

He wasn't very popular throughout highschool and wasn't much of a looker and obviously never git much female attention. He has lately married his first ever girlfriend but I noticed he's trying to hit up every girl in his town

[coldmarch]

Someone doesn't cheat because of the length of a relationship or lack of experiences. He cheats because he is dishonest and a coward, opportunist who wants to stay with the safety of the partner at home and the adventure of lovers around. If he doesn't feel good with his partner, before cheating, he should have a honour and some self worth and to quit with her first, before looking around. For sure love stories that started early in the life have a great chance to fail due to both partners changing or getting to be more confident and so to aim to "greener grass", but this only means that both could get bored and be easily attracted to others, but that doesn't mean automatically also deciding to indulge on it. Cheating is not something you do "because of the circumstance", but because of how immature and dishonest you are in general. Plus, who cheats with a partner, generally cheats with all the future partners at some point. Because it's something of the person itself, not of the context or anything. The context might help having more "input" to look for others but the final decision to cheat is anyway fully rational and plenty of chances to avoid doing that.
Likely, she might be attracted to other guys occasionally as well. But you're not saying she cheats, as a result. So this situation only speaks about who is a better person among the two.

[sunflower00]

If he’s cheating it’s because he’s a bad person or doesn’t care about his wife

[Anonymous]

How does it come the marital and relational behaviour of this old-time schoolmate concerns you, I wonder?

[Opinion Owner]

concern*

[Asker]

I dunno but might explain why he's cheating

[Opinion Owner]

Are you his very first girlfriend that he married?
If it isn't you, I really don't know why you feel concerned whether or not he may be cheating on her wife.

[Berethor]

No, he was likely been doing the same in any case.

[WhitneySnow]

Yes he’s trying to cheat

[Raphaëlle]

Sounds like a doomed marriage.