If you are confident/insecure, do you prefer to date someone who is also that or would you prefer the opposite? (Page 2)

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I still disagree with the whole opposites attract. But I’m watching Miraculous Ladybug reruns and it just seems like the guy Adrien finds himself more attracted to strong confident women like Ladybug and Kagami rather than shy and anxiety filled Marinette (Ladybugs alterego). And i find it silly because Adrien himself is a bit insecure and can't even standup to his own dad YET he only seems to want to date the opposite... confident girls. I mean he only acts overconfident when in his alterego Cat Noir getup. So do you also prefer to date someone who has the confidence you lack or who lacks the confidence you have? Or do you prefer to date someone who is just as confident/insecure as you?  I’d likely go for the same as myself. I feel I’m more confident then insecure. But of course everyone has insecure moments. I like shy guys but I’m not the type to overwork myself trying to bring someone out of their shell. I’d get tired after a few weeks and move on #FeelFreeToList #OppositeDay

Jammaa · Answer

I definitely prefer confident but more than that I prefer relatability, so if he's just confident and never fails to be confident, I'd think that's just so not relatable since I'm confident at times but I definitely get insecure often too.

Berethor · Answer

It's about common goals.

Anonymous · Answer

I don’t think there needs to be any sense to the attraction there. The Ladybug-Adrian-Marionette dynamic is just for its own sake. Looking for insights into masculine attraction through these character is not going to be helpful. Just talk to dudes for insight.

Emilyis · Answer

I want someone just like me so we can have intelligent conversations and understand one another. That was a problem in high school. They only talked about sports and what classes they were failing.

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

I prefer to be with someone a bit more confident than me. I can be painfully shy at times. I don't want an arrogant mf tho. I like a guy that is effortlessly confident.

silkjames · Answer

She has too be confident like me and its understandable people are shy at first I never been shy tho and I know when to step back but once we know each other I have no filter lol and expect her too speak her mind like me:) confident 👍🏽!

talka20 · Answer

For me... im both and id date someone w mix of both... and also for me iss like when i love you, then you become my type... not that ill have so much in mytype list just basic few things. And its fun being w someone with little struggles here n there

ChiTown33 · Answer

I don't think anyone is solidly in one camp or the other. I think I can get along with both. I mean to me it's less how you INTERACT with others than the way you TREAT others.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

I'm an extremely confident person. I have 100% categorically no interest in dating a woman who isn't confident as well.

Pink2000 · Answer

I want someone who is confident. I have enough insecurities of my own. I don’t have time to try to validate someone else 😂.

Anpu23 · Answer

I am quite confident and I find conference very attractive.

Shark_61695 · Answer

I'd probably prefer to date someone more confident than me, dunno if I'd go as far as opposite but certainly leaning that way.

Ghostlypanda · Answer

If im insecure i perfer not to date anyone and work on myself. Stay single until you are confident. That insecurity shit rubs off and spoils relationships.

Jltakk · Answer

I have a fearful-avoidant attachment style and avoidant personality disorder. For her sake, I'd hope she has her ducks in a row.

Guido · Answer

I think most people regardless of sex prefer to date a confident person.

DevinAM · Answer

More confident would probably be better because they might be able to inspire more in me. I'm already better than I used to be in that regard but I still have difficulty peopling.

pastuser · Answer

i'm insecure i want a girl who is insecure also it would make me feel better about myself

Anonymous · Answer

I would prefer someone Shy like me or even more so because I am usually Intimidated by Confidence because Confident People usually push me into situations where I don't feel Confident.

Slim57 · Answer

Same as me or opposite but not too much of either is what I prefer, I can do either or

TrueConfection · Answer

I like confidence. Birds of a feather!

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