Guys, would you want to know if you make your new date nervous?

[Anonymous]

I've started seeing a new guy and so far we've been on two small dates, we haven't had enough time yet for a proper date. The thing is I'm inexperienced in both dating and intimacy, he really makes me nervous but in a good way. I do not want to scare him by sometimes being overwhelmed by the "new feelings", being close to him and getting nervous is too much at times...

So I just wanna ask, is it a bad thing to tell him that he makes me nervous? (but in a good way) - not nervous as in "I don't want to spend anymore time with you because you make me uncomfortable".

Yes, I'd prefer to know, I might actually be flattered by it that I have such an effect on her!

No, better not keep it to yourself, it might scare the man?

[summiter]

I think it is ok to tell him gently. He should appreciate it... enjoy getting to know him and maybe things might turn out to be fun and/or sexual. Who knows!

[Asker]

I will tell him, I hope it's going to help this situation :D Thanks for responding! :)

[Anonymous]

I would like to know so I could maybe make her feel more comfortable

[Asker]

That is nice, hopefully he'll do the same.

[JesseJayNeak]

I’d be flattered