Girls, how can a shy guy like me start interacting with women properly?

[GreedGod]

Hey everyone, I'm a shy and introverted guy. I mostly do my work online as I'm a motion designer. Due to this I'm very irregular in interacting with women. I get very anxious if I see a women near or trying to talk to me.

Also I'm a relatively shorter guy than most other guys which makes me feel even worse about my situation. I feel like women are not gonna like me due to my height.

What suggestions would you give to me? :)

[jennifer_bloom]

Chase a shy girl cause they are loyal to average looking people who aren’t rich

[Thevocalist]

Just be yourself. You have to learn how to be comfortable with you and stop trying to impress women. Women don’t need to be impressed they need to be loved and cherished and appreciated if they don’t like who you are then find someone who do.

[GreedGod]

But I fear that most women will not like me.

[Thevocalist]

That’s something your gonna have to work on with yourself. You should love everything about yourself, own being short it’s something that’s not gonna change. You attract better people when you know yourself and look at your flaws in a positive view. Kevin hart is 5’4” and has a tall wife. He make jokes about his life no matter how bad it is you have to learn to live with things you cannot change. If a woman loves you your height will be looked at like how magic Johnson’s wife thinks about his hiv. She loves you regardless.

[GreedGod]

I see the point that you're saying that if a woman loves you're it's regardless of height. But my point is first they have to love me for that. And for them being attracted to me, I see height as a very big problem. Secondly, Kevin Hart is a celebrity. He has higher status. It barely applies to a normal person.

[Thevocalist]

And that’s my point. Kevin hart is a normal person. Try being funny make jokes about the things you don’t like about yourself instead of trying to run from them. Women love funny guys😊

[random_girl95]

@greedgod Imagine this. A taller girl comes to you in order to hang out. She shows some signs of attraction but you are not sure. Would you reject her just because she is taller than you?

[Thevocalist]

It’s all in your head. You are what you think you are. If you think women won’t like you because you’re short then you won’t attract women. But if you start telling yourself “ all women are not gonna care about my height as long as I treat them right” your gonna meet a girl who wants just that. It’s so many women on this earth who cares about the ones who don’t like your height

[GreedGod]

@random_girl95 I don't really care about a woman's height. Doesn't matter to me. If she likes I will like her.

[random_girl95]

That's good. Means you care about deeper values than just appearance.

[GreedGod]

@random_girl95 I only care about being fit, because I'm fit and go to the gym and live a healthy lifestyle. Other than that I really don't care about anything.

[Thevocalist]

That’s good to want someone who’s interested in the same things as you.

[GreedGod]

😊😊thanks. I will try my best to talk with full confidence now.

[IlikeClubMusic]

dont even try it, the chance of success is 5 percent, chance of rejection or being called a creep is 95 percent jus for the simple fact that u are male, not even worth the risk

[IlikeClubMusic]

trust me, save yourself the hassle, better off without it

[random_girl95]

@ilikeclubmusic I think I might disagree with you. The solution is to confront his fears, not to run away from them.

[IlikeClubMusic]

@random_girl95 but fear is rational in this case, it keeps us safe... if u walk into a building house every day to sit down for 5 minutes you're gonna eventually get burned... but in this scenario its like sitting in a building on fire for an hour cos the chance of coming out unburned is low

[IlikeClubMusic]

its like why subject yourself to that every day?

[IlikeClubMusic]

i mean if he wants to risk that its up to him, id jus rather not get burned 500 times on the off chance i might come out with a reward

[IlikeClubMusic]

jus ain't worth the reward in my opinion, not when the chances of being burned are so high

[random_girl95]

@ilikeclubmusic I agree with you that failure is an unpleasant feeling. So if he can't handle rejection he should just be waiting for a girl to make a first move?

[Thevocalist]

Never run from your fears life is all about learning and making memories and LIVING. You can’t do that if you’re staying stuck on something so irrelevant like height

[Thevocalist]

Women make first moves all the time

[Thevocalist]

Stop thinking it’s one sided

[random_girl95]

@Thevocalist Yes that is exactly the thing. For some reason men think that someone told them that they are always the one to make the first move and if they can't do it then they failed as men. However that's far form true.

[Thevocalist]

Yes women know what they want also they just like to be chased because men tend to take us for granted but whole time she had a crush on that guy since she laid eyes on him lol.. hate to be giving out the tea but yea.