If I show clear interest in a girl and she plays hard to get and eventually starts fucking another guy I should be done right?

[Intothevoid666]

Curious to see what girls and guys say about this cuz like the past 20 girls I’ve shown interest in did this and I’m really not sure what to do about it anymore at this point. It’s not cuz they don’t like me. I’m pretty sure they find me really attractive but assume I just want sex or something. What do u guys think? If I refuse to date women who have done this I’m essentially eliminating 95% of my dating pool. But If I don’t eliminate women who did this do I still have self respect? Discuss

[ShadowMonarch]

Girls play hard to get... but they don't go that far... and in your situation 20 girls have done that... there is something more to it...

[Intothevoid666]

I have poor social skills and am really attractive I think is what it is. So they always assume I just want to fuck them even if it’s not true.

[ShadowMonarch]

Still... it shouldn't happen,,
The thing is it can happen but not with 20 girls... I mean that is a big number... how much do they wait for you?

[Intothevoid666]

How long do they play hard to get before fucking another guy? I should add tho they clearly don’t actually like these guys and really only want to get the guy to like them so they can feel validated. But it’s like how r u gonna crush on me and then ignore my texts while fucking another guy? Who does that? Apparantly the majority of women I’ve crushed on the past year lol.

[ShadowMonarch]

Developing your social skills might be the answer..
Communication is the key here...
Women act with emotions

[Intothevoid666]

Yeah I think I act too interested too quickly because well I do want to have sex with them lol but I think it scares them away plus I should really ask more questions before I fuck because it can be dangerous or bad if I don’t.

[ShadowMonarch]

Yeah... you should definitely not be hasty... even more if you are attractive

[Neilbud]

If she is doing someone else, she is not interested. Best to move on with your life.

[CloudMassacre]

Yeah

[Intothevoid666]

But what if it’s cuz she was really attracted to me and thought I was too good for her and just wanted to fuck her? Does that change things then or nah?

[CloudMassacre]

Nah.

[Intothevoid666]

What if she’s right and I did just want to fuck her? But I changed my mind later

[In_Trance]

duhhh