People say it's preference, but a preference is developed on the basis of something, isn't it?
Society doomed short men.
They just do because for hundreds of thousands of years, women wanted men who count kill sabertooth tigers with their bare hands and sh*t and men who were small; under six feet, couldn't do that. So it's hardwired into their DNA; to them, men aren't
supposed" to be short and they're considered subconsciously genetically inferior/weak if they are, and thus, unworthy of mating, breeding, or making children with.
And before anyone gives me any crap about "men being shorter in the past," no, you're wrong. The default height of adult Homo Sapien men is 184 cm, or six feet tall. The agricultural age is what shrunk men down like six inches and it took hundreds of years, if not thousands, for society to catch back up, and even now, only Europe has caught back to cavemen height. But scientifically men are SUPPOSED to be at least 184 cm and any man below that is genetically considered short. So anyone can shut up if they try to get on me for that.
In many cultures the men are shorter than say the tall brawny western European , so then you're saying men of particular nationalities are " interior " Evolutionary psychology ia all based on theories from ivory towers with a western spin , it's simply racist sexist and xenophobic and also part of a media obsession nowadays which has effected the publics perception Not all women need or want a taller man, they aren't attracted to them , everyone is an individual , women aren't all helpless
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"I'm" not saying that. That's just genetic fact. And no, it's not based on "nationalities." It's based on the diet and health of a particular culture.
Also, I don't take anyone seriously who calls things "racist, sexist, and xenophobic." WTF *isn't* considered any of those things nowadays in Current Year? "Facts and science be racist!" 🤪
I ALSO don't take you seriously when you contradict yourself in your own BS comment.
"My husband is 5'9 [and I'm] 5'6."
So you claim you don't need a taller man, but then married a taller man anyway. Makes sense! 🙄
Please, get lost and don't bother me on GAG again.
It depends on the woman how she was raised and what she thinks.
There’s maybe a sense to tall being more powerful or feeling feminine or dancing and such is better. But most of that can be overcome by other strong qualities you offer. I’m general … short is an excuse to say ‘no’ and it’s your challenge to overcome.
My husband is 5' 9 and I'm the same I like men my own height to 5'6"
Never wanted someone towering over me
Shorter men are not inferior and when women think they are I find that strange
Oh, you're a rare kind.
I just never bought into men having to be taller , this is very engrained especially in American society
Before I was married women always thought I needed someone 6' 5" , they said " doesn't that make you feel more feminine? " I answered " No and why is femininity always equated with having to feel weaker " They came back with " We don't understand " Women , some women think it's their place their subjective need on other women
That's what I think but a lot of women post hate comments whenI talk about same thing you said.
Someone misunderstood me , I said my and husband and I are both 5' 9" My height range of men has been 5' 9" to 5' 6 I don't see why people are so unhinged about a woman liking shorter men, this is an individual preference and not something all that unusual
The reason this could be discriminatory is because in some areas of the world the men are shorter
Can't see why this is a big deal that I'm not attracted to men taller than me and there is this anger that I don't fit some pattern This isn't odd weird or unnatural People are individuals Women aren't clones with all the same mindset
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It is true in general that men and women both consider short men inferior. It's just programmed into the DNA, I mean bigger is stronger in about almost everything in a physical context.
But short women are just perceived as being more passive or submissive and some guys find that attractive.
It's not in my DNA
@amandat94132 Sure it is, but sometimes things skip generations.
People are individuals not clones of some evolutionary psychology ideal
@amandat94132 Oh I see I am dealing with an idealist. Good for you.
Well, it's a vestige from the early days of humans when being bigger meant better able to defend your woman in hand-to-hand combat, which is largely irrelevant today. Today, it's part of hypergamy, where a woman needs to be sure she has the "best" she can get, as ridiculous as that may sound. Here's an example: my 5'9 sister complained that her husband (a surgeon) is "only" 5'11 and is the shortest male in his family.
Its biology. Over hundreds of years women looked for protection for herself and her children and tall strong men were seen as the viable partner, for men it was about spreading the seed, thats why men look for sex over everything.
It's a cultural norm.
Because before men were the ones who had to be strong because of vulnerability. But, now it's not the case anymore.
Evolutionary psychology is media driven nonsense The concepts are sexist against women and for shorter men evolutionary psychology demeans and discriminates against them
by the way women are sexual beings Women need sex also , sex isn't a one way deal
@amandat94132 Of course nature made both sexes desire sex, but we all now who loves it the most.
@amandat94132 So men didn't primeraly hunt and woman didn't care for their children? Aren't you negating basic concepts of history? Of course maybe women sometimes went hunting too, but men did most of that. Negating it is nonsense. Isn't it true that women still prefer tall men that can provide $$$$$? Or is it the media?
Romantic stories and men are usually taller than women biologically so I guess they want a guy who is a little taller than themselves
Not little even 5'1 women want 6' men
I think it's natural. The female subconsciously looking for the biggest bull. This is the case with many species.
short men are inferior, they are all ways trying to be big. we had a pub and it was always the short men who started the trouble never a big guy
They feel more protected from what I’ve heard even though they are shorter than most men anyway, I’m not even 6 foot but it really hasn’t been a problem, not having any luck anyway lately because I’m older
The misconception is this is a social preference when really it's biological.
It's more of cultural norm.
Oh sorry, I actually read it inversed.
And we consider shallow gold diggers and sluts inferior
Primal instinct,
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