If neither of them are making a move on each other and she doesn’t even know you, perhaps she’ll be more interested in someone who is actually into her. It doesn’t hurt to ask her for a date.
Of course, I'm not allowed to do the kind of dating that those old enough to drive typically do. However, it is a bit like the only thing I change more often then boyfriends are my clothes; even quicker if I like the next guy more.
@KelleyNice Okay. I understand. At your age, I think that's okay. Only that I wouldn't call them your boyfriends. Just go on dates with different guys and see how things go with each one and see how you get along. But you don't need to give them a title. (2 reasons for this: -It could hurt the guy's feelings if you tell him he's your boyfriend and then you break up with him. That isn't nice. -It could hurt your reputation if you become known as the girl who keeps switching between boyfriends.) Just a few things to think about! 🙂. But good luck in your journey!
P. S. I should probably add that my opinion is you shouldn't do anything sexual with anyone yet. But you probably know that, as you've probably heard it from many other people! Lol
Thank you for your suggestions. My reputation or hurting a boy's feelings never entered my mind but can I understand that it should. You must be a thoughtful person. I don't think most girls consider a boy's feelings. And, I promise that I don't do anything sexual other than holding hands. Also, most of my interactions with boys involves more than the two of us.
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If neither of them are making a move on each other and she doesn’t even know you, perhaps she’ll be more interested in someone who is actually into her. It doesn’t hurt to ask her for a date.
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I’ll just say don’t create regrets. Those hurt far more and for far longer than rejection. Be brave.
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You haven't met her yet? But you said she tolerates you. Just be bold and confident and tell her you're interested the old fashioned way
I can't speak for older women but if I dating a guy, I will still want to upgrade.
Upgrade? We're not talking about phones here, lol :D
@Snsl153 Lol
@KelleyNice Can you explain a little bit more what you mean by that?
Of course, I'm not allowed to do the kind of dating that those old enough to drive typically do. However, it is a bit like the only thing I change more often then boyfriends are my clothes; even quicker if I like the next guy more.
@KelleyNice Okay. I understand. At your age, I think that's okay. Only that I wouldn't call them your boyfriends. Just go on dates with different guys and see how things go with each one and see how you get along. But you don't need to give them a title.
(2 reasons for this:
-It could hurt the guy's feelings if you tell him he's your boyfriend and then you break up with him. That isn't nice.
-It could hurt your reputation if you become known as the girl who keeps switching between boyfriends.)
Just a few things to think about! 🙂. But good luck in your journey!
P. S. I should probably add that my opinion is you shouldn't do anything sexual with anyone yet. But you probably know that, as you've probably heard it from many other people! Lol
Thank you for your suggestions. My reputation or hurting a boy's feelings never entered my mind but can I understand that it should. You must be a thoughtful person. I don't think most girls consider a boy's feelings. And, I promise that I don't do anything sexual other than holding hands. Also, most of my interactions with boys involves more than the two of us.
@KelleyNice Cool!
I will say just this, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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Move on bro. Find another girl, you're wasting your time and causing yourself undue stress.
Girl emotions are already fickle, don't pick one that's day dreaming about sucking on someone else's dick
She already likes him tho
I'm aware.
So what should I do? Nothing?
Yes. Find someone else, if you can't wait forever.
@anon1903 I'm not in a hurry, though.
But it's still impractical to wait
But I like her.
Whatever fits you
A duel. Pistols at 50 paces. Be sure not to miss.
Lol.
And perhaps a new kevlar tuxedo if you feel your "QuickDraw not quite what it should be."
Oh yes. He's sitting on his hands. Get it!
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Who cares about what the other guy is on paper. Objective potential does not a connection make!
Okay! Okay! Lol
Thank you.
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