Well there is an aspect of him not respecting your wishes of course but you should also consider that he loves you, belly an' all and if only you could learn to love you too, probably all would be well.
I think you should address both problems by working on improving your self acceptance and self love etc both on your own and with your boyfriends help and support etc but he needs to understand more deeply how engrained this issue is for you and that he needs to respect your boundaries too (this is something he needs to work on, no means no.)
Have a serious sit down talk with him. Lay it out that you don't like that he does that and tell him to stop. In a relationship, there should always be boundaries otherwise the person will take advantage overtime. If you have that serious talk and you tell him to stop that you hate it, and he doesn't stop then he doesn't respect you. Or if you are telling him to stop and he laughs and says it's not a big deal and you are the one with the problem then he's a narcissist. I would break up with him once finding that out. Because what would happen if you did that to him. If he doesn't have fat, imitate that he does have fat. I'm pretty sure it would upset him but yet he can do it to you right? That's where it's messed up. So you got to put your foot down and tell him firmly to stop.
He loves u he love all the way u are dont took it prsonal it means he doesn't care bout ur body but love
Your husband does not read your mind... So fucking say it to him on a good way.
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You e told him you don't like something, he continues to do it anyway. He is in the wrong. It is probably just a bit of immaturity and doesn't mean to hurt you. He may not be capable of realising how he is making you feel. Honestly be straight with him, not just that you don't like it, but how it makes you feel, and how it makes you feel that you've already explained you don't like it yet he continues.
He should learn how to respect your boundaries. If you don’t like it and it makes you upset, he should stop doing it.
Firstly, that's not something to be upset about in my opinion. But if you think so, weigh the pros and cons of fighting over this silly little thing. And make a decision by yourself.
Sounds to me like your boyfriend has a bit of a belly fetish. Maybe he is trying to show you he likes you with a belly.
It’s his way of showing you affection. You may not take it this way but it is. Maybe just talk to him.
Apparently your boyfriend loves your chibbiness. You should be happy about that.
You're not chubby. You're FAT! Say it. In other words you should be happy you even have a boyfriend you ungrateful bitch.
He probably likes it. Embrace that he does and be happy you have someone that appreciates you for who you are.
Women are like dogs. They love it when you rub their tummies. But they'll always pretend like they don't like it.
Observe fellas!
Tell him gently, that you feel uncomfortable for this action
He's blockhead, but it does seem like he enjoys you being chubby.
Um, I dont see why you are upset bout it
That's his way of loving you duh
I don't know why he does this.
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