If a guy is heartless, selfish, egoistic towards me and if he loves me, should I love him back losing my self respect for his ego satisfaction?

[Anonymous]

If I break up and move on with some other due to this reason will I be considered as a characterless and cheap girl? Is it necessary to stay loyal to him if he treats me like trash?

[slatyb]

“He loves me” How do you know that? Because he says so? That doesn’t matter. Only his behavior matters. You don’t feel loved. Dump him and find someone capable of showing you love.

[genericname85]

what the heck is this question. what you wanna do with your life is your decision. you don't "have" to do anything but eat shit and die some day. the rest is optional.

[24jack]

Break up, keep some self respect otherwise you'll suffer

[Asker]

Thanks. I agree that it's necessary

[24jack]

Yeah it's important

[Anonymous]

You lost me at heartless and selfish. A man that loves you is not heartless and selfish to you. If he is like that he definitely does not love you.