Am I unlovable?

[LonelyTimes]

Most all my peers I know are married and/or have kids. I have another friend who is out on a date right now and another that is about to get married.

I am at the house all by myself. I never had a real girlfriend before and I am about to turn 28. I also haven't touched a woman in 7 years. Am I just unlovable?

Yes

No

[Ευδεμονια]

Honestly speaking, I’m in your same boat. I’m nearly 28, never had a girlfriend, never had intercourse, never kissed, never been loved, only rejection and only indifference. Around I have a lot of engaged or married people, my friends are mostly engaged and we have also girls on our group, but they never have been interested in me, only in others.
I don’t think it exists a person that is meant to not be loved (outside family and friends), everyone may have the “right person” in this world, the mate soul, but I think that probably some people has something that doesn’t allow them to find this right person. I sincerely think I’m one of them, and so I gave up on dating and everything, there’s no reason to harm myself bringing only with sufferance.
There’s a lot of things to do with friends and alone, also it’s important to work on ourselves to stay healthy despite being alone.

[LonelyTimes]

Thank you man. At least I know I am not alone in this battle. It is so distressing to me, especially because I have always wanted a girlfriend, a wife, and a family of my own my entire life. I personally don't know anyone that is in the same shoes as me. It is tough to relate to a lot of people. My normally homeless and loser friend that has no ambition gets more girls than me, and it blows my mind. I guess I just have to focus on myself and my career.

[Ευδεμονια]

I can relate. I comprehend your desires, but it isn’t a battle, I don’t want to push you on my choice of stop every date hope since it isn’t really a happy choice. But I suggest you to make peace with yourself, especially towards your friend. He’s lucky or maybe he attracts girls that seek a particular type of man or attention and he gives them that, you don’t have to envy him, focus only on you, your career, your passions, your hobbies and your health. These are the things that matter.

[RobT312]

Dude, get out there and meet someone.
you can’t just wait for them to come to you.
do whatever it takes... online sites, bars , activities, sports,, lean on your friends...
you will find someone

[historectomy]

just gotta go out more man go places you like, find people there, don't look for it, it usually comes to you, always be patient, 50/50 you find a girlfriend or you don't

[LonelyTimes]

What places? My normally homeless and loser friend stays in the room all day, yet he gets more pussy than me.

[historectomy]

what works for someone doesn't work for everyone, gotta find what helps you, and find something you enjoy, whether it be a sport, drinking, anything and go there, maybe meet someone who likes something you like

[LonelyTimes]

Dude I am just thinking about overdosing. I am tired of this

[Danielhako]

Join the Black-Pill community brother all are welcome

[LonelyTimes]

How do I join?

[LonelyTimes]

I am thinking about overdosing man. There is no point.

[Danielhako]

you just become black pilled

[Danielhako]

Have you thought of Geo-maxxing

[Danielhako]

watch " Wheat Waffles " youtube video's he explains so much

[Anonymous]

No one's unlovable. You are a creature of God.

[LonelyTimes]

I have been single pretty much my whole life. No woman is ever interested in me.

[Opinion Owner]

You may have looked in the wrong places for companionship. There are many dating sites. Have you thought about looking outside your country. Or start attending a church of your choice. There are many women out there that have the same feelings that you have that they're unwanted and not loved.

[LonelyTimes]

The dating sites, sadly, have been a major failure for me over the course of many years.

[Opinion Owner]

Don't be a downer and don't get depressed. Just have not found the right person

[Opinion Owner]

You also need to have a little positive metal attitude. A little PMA goes far. People can sense that you're down upon yourself when you do not have a positive attitude about life. I did not get married until I was close to 30.

[LonelyTimes]

I understand not being married at my age, but never having a girlfriend? C'mon now. I agree with the PMA, but it is hard. All I can do is try.

[Opinion Owner]

You need to think of something positive everyday for every hour. Best to you and have a good positive attitude. I step forward and gave you something positive so press forward pass it on don't be a Debbie Downer

[LonelyTimes]

Thanks man