Is it cheating to hang out with your ex just to catch up cause you miss their friendship?

[Anonymous]

yes

no

other

[Anonymous]

All women are narcissistic masochists. We hate it when things are going well, especially if they continue to go well for long periods of time. We know down deep that we are fucked-up and not worthy of anything that is truly good. So when things are going well in a relationship, we eventually sabotage it. We just can’t help ourselves in this regard.
We could have the greatest, most handsome, most caring husband in the world—a one-of-a-kind man who makes all of our girlfriends jealous; we could have the greatest children in the world, who are beautiful, well-behaved and ambitious; we could have the most enviable career imaginable; we could have all of the money and prestige and the truly good things in life, and we could repeatedly tell ourselves over and over, and believe, on the surface, that we would never cheat on our husbands. But down deep we know that it’s a lie. Because one day, we could walk into a grocery store, and some bad boy with a big dick could whisper just the right combination of words in our ear, and the next thing you know, we’re at the Motel 6 getting it in the ass. That’s just how we are, and any woman—especially a hot woman—who says otherwise, is a liar

[Asker]

there's sadly some truth to this, not all women are the same but it did strike a cord

[Apulu_Imback]

It is inappropriate if you didn't ask permission from your current partner.

[Cuminginside]

Spoken like a true prodigy. Always a right answer

[Apulu_Imback]

@Cuminginside thank you!

[Cuminginside]

People never think to ask and that's how problem start but there is an American saying, "it's better to ask for forgiveness than permission."

[Apulu_Imback]

@Cuminginside I would better ask for permission. I don't want anyone to be upset by me. It's like hurting them with my own hands and then trying to heal their wounds with my own hands only. And you never know whether that wound will ever get healed when treated by my hands. They say here "Prevention is better than cure".

[Cuminginside]

That is true prevention is better than cure however in America a lot of people think you're a punk if you have to ask permission for every little thing that's where the better to ask forgiveness than permission comes from our unique Cowboy culture.

[Apulu_Imback]

@Cuminginside I see. Well it's really different in Asia. You need permission no matter what. That swag and badass style won't work here lol. Otherwise it will create bad misunderstandings. There are things you are allowed to be independent in but if there is something in which you don't have any rights or your right is being shared with someone then ask for permission. Over here it's considered best to always remain clean and not to look like a moron while apologizing.

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

Well if you are seriously committed in your new relationship then you want to get the feelings of your partner for sure. That is what a relationship is all about. Thinking together not separately. Considering one another's feelings.

[Ευδεμονια]

I think it’s cheating if the partner doesn’t know the thing. If the desire to restore friendship with the ex has been discussed with partner and partner approves, it’s not cheating.

[OlderAndWiser]

Does your current partner know about it or do you need to keep it a secret?

[Cuminginside]

Thank you that's what I'm talkin about!

[OlderAndWiser]

@Cuminginside Doesn't matter whether it is "technically" cheating. If you must hide it from your partner, then you are violating their trust.

[Cuminginside]

They always say if you have to hide something in life something is wrong either with you the other person or the entire situation deserves closer examination.

[HighValue]

Any contact with an ex is good enough reason to end a relationship in my opinion.

[Asker]

why?

[Cuminginside]

Because you're pushing it you're taking a chance on something will happen why take that chance

[Anonymous]

Miss their friendship? Only a simp would fall for that nonsense...

[jahaims]

Depends if you told your current partner about it or not and what you did/said while hanging out. If you are missing the company of an ex you probably shouldn't be in a relationship

[athlete_7]

U never know how things could turn out with ex thats why i keep em away from my life

[Goodsmile88]

If your in a serious relationship, your current partner should be getting and wanting that attention from you.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

yes no good friendship there

[worldscolide]

Cheating, no. Inappropriate, yes.

[worldscolide]

And if you have to ask why, you're clearly not over them and should not be in a relationship.