How common is a opposite attracted relationship?

[TheMajesticKing777]

By this I mean, have you ever heard the saying that opposites attract? Well how common does it happen tho? So I made a poll and I need honesty to get the best results, if you were ever attracted to someone that's the opposite of you then I need the votes

I have been attracted to an opposite

I have been in a relationship with an opposite

I have not been attracted to an opposite at all

[NathanDavis]

hmmm... I do not believe in this saying

well, I do not get it

people are extremely complex, and the more you know them the more there is going to be about them, so what is the true measure in here? you will always have some things in common, and other things that are not common

so, which ones do you count, which ones do you left out? and then... how many of them things you will count? lol

for example, I am on the taller side... my ex-girlfriend was on the shorter side, does that makes us opposites? yes on that thing, but what about other things and more important things

what if we have the same values and morals, ideals and goals... but we have very different personalities, does that makes us opposite? or not opposite?

[TheMajesticKing777]

Nothing in common but you are attracted to that person for the way they are

[NathanDavis]

well... that is pretty much impossible for me

if I am intelligent, it would mean she'd dumb AF

if am active and fit... it would mean she's a slob

if I am decent, kind and all kinds of good stuff... that would mean she is the opposite and she's has all kinds of bad traits

now, why would I even want that... lol

I am definitely not attracted to the opposite of me

[TheMajesticKing777]

You are mutting it and thinking too much about it, not every single thing, just hobbies and stuff lol

Either ways tho I wouldn't expect everyone to be attracted to opposites

[NathanDavis]

okay, I would be absolutely okay... being with a Nickelback fan... lmfao

I would overlook, THAT

[TheMajesticKing777]

I don't think you get this whole opposite attraction thing, you seem to be trying tho cause I really don't know how to explain it lol

[NathanDavis]

let me ask someone smart I know... lmfao

@dustybiker what would you say is the opposite me... lol

[dustybiker]

@NathanDavis You’re opposite would be someone who couldn’t keep up conversation. Who wouldn’t understand half of what you say, and never when you said something implied (most especially when said with tongue in cheek humor) That person would bore the hell out of you. Avoid the divorce. Don’t marry them.

[NathanDavis]

oh, I would definitely not want to get involved with any of that... lol

[dustybiker]

@NathanDavis Exactly

[Honesttguy]

It only works if opposite is better and you're the shitty one. Say you're liar and she's honest one. Or you're messy one and she loves to clean things up.
If you silent one and she's talkative.
But it doesn't work for her side thos cus she has to do all the work u bastard.

[TheMajesticKing777]

What are you on?

[dustybiker]

Not possible in my mind. The real opposite is someone who grates your very nerves. And not in an impassioned way. A hateful mix. Dangerous. Anyone else if attraction happens you have some commonality that is less obvious, but still solid enough to make it work.

[serious]

I have never been in a relationship and no, I don't believe opposites attract. This is not physics, this isn't theory of magnetism. In human dynamics opposites do not attract.

On the contrary I strongly believe that likes attract, likes ensure there is a common ground and high compatibility.

[Birdlegs]

I messed up the vote but all my girlfriends have been opposites to me. Very few things in common

[TheMajesticKing777]

Fair enough

[JoyGirl]

Hmmm…nah…lol