This works best with people who are accustomed to being fawned over and pursued. If you play hard to get with someone who is used to rejection they'll just leave you and move on.
You will only get the persistent guys. They won't be only that during the chase, in the relationship they will always want to get their way as well. If that's your thing, great.
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It's never worked on me. The first sign of disinterest, I'm done. The only time you showing interest would turn a guy off, is if he never really had any real interest to begin with in my opinion.
For most women it does but for majority of others it doesn't so my candid advice is seize the opportunity when it presents itself cos it might not linger for long.
No. Be straightforward. It's a huge mess if you play hard. I mean.. you are playing with someone's heart. You never know how emotional he is. I hate people who play hard to achieve something.
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I dont find playing mind games is a very good way to attract someone.
This works best with people who are accustomed to being fawned over and pursued. If you play hard to get with someone who is used to rejection they'll just leave you and move on.
You will only get the persistent guys. They won't be only that during the chase, in the relationship they will always want to get their way as well. If that's your thing, great.
It's never worked on me. The first sign of disinterest, I'm done. The only time you showing interest would turn a guy off, is if he never really had any real interest to begin with in my opinion.
If you have to do that to keep interest. Theyre on the fence anyway.
Honestly it might work on some but it's a big red flag for most
Your "friend" is actually an idiot... :-/
Friends, actually. Two of my guy friends said the same thing, hence the confusion.
For most women it does but for majority of others it doesn't so my candid advice is seize the opportunity when it presents itself cos it might not linger for long.
no. it doesn't work - especially given recent social trends.
if a gal ever gave me the impression that she didn't want me around, i simply moved on.
''Playing'' only works on the short run. Be yourself.
Can only imagine that it does if the person in question is just that down bad.
It can, if you know how to do it properly. Unfortunately, very few people do.
If you played hard to get I would just stop. No one can tell between hard to get and not interested. That and frankly it wastes time for both of you.
No we just assume you aren't interested, the common advice men get is when a girl says no or plays hard to get it just means no
No. Be straightforward. It's a huge mess if you play hard. I mean.. you are playing with someone's heart. You never know how emotional he is. I hate people who play hard to achieve something.
Most of the time it backfires.. People usually don't put up with that and lose interest
Just do want you came they make seeing that you trying a lot to show who you really love the most of the two?
thats all..
Do guys get bored --- everyone gets sometimes bored --- That is an individual and situational "thing"
What relieves your "boredom"
There's hard to get and then there's ridiculous you need to find a happy place