Would you feel strange going to see someone where they work //Would you feel strange if someone came to see you where you work?

[VIVANT]

Let’s say your schedule is packed and the only time you are free to talk is after work. would you feel weird if someone showed up to talk to you where you work after hours? Would you be uncomfortable going to see someone where they work after hours?

Meeting at a mid point can he prefers bid but requires or just rating. Meeting after work makes it very low pressure in my opinion tho may feel funny if your coworkers dk the person or theirs to you bc people make issues out of nothing 🤷🏻‍♀️

I wouldn’t kind someone coming to my work but I’d feel funny going to theirs

I don’t mind going to see them at their work but I don’t want them coming to see me

I don’t like either scenario.

Other.

[Jamie05rhs]

I think it's fine as long as it isn't a surprise. If it was pre-arranged then it's cool.
... However, it would have to be someone I know. Not a stranger. Also, they have to keep it brief. Hi and bye; that's it. We don't need to be jeopardizing anyone's career.

[VIVANT]

After hours = after work 🙂

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, okay.
But it's still unprofessional to loiter at the workplace.

[VIVANT]

Well no the idea is they show up and you leave and talk or whatever lol it’s about them being there not staying there. I don't know I just feel weird if people show up I think I it reminds me of parents picking their kids up or something lol

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh; interesting.

And haha- that's really funny because I thought of the exact same thing. 😅

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO!

[NathanDavis]

I wouldn't mind it either way, but I guess is because of my particular job that I don't mind it...

it would not be dangerous or odd, nothing controversial either besides, I could have the flexibility to find the time to meet during work hours, or after... even before working hours, lol

[WhitneySnow]

I’d arrange to meet at a public place after work, someplace close enough that I could get there easily and still have time to get home after.

[ZackBan]

I wouldn't particularly feel strange.
I used to go see my friend when he worked at a restaurant.
And I brought him to an after-work basketball session with me once, he met my coworkers.

It didn't really feel like anything everyone was pretty chill with one another

[exitseven]

I dated a girl who was a bartender. She worked nights so I used to go to the restaurant where she worked and sit at the bar and we could talk when she wasn"t busy. She got off at 11PM and we used to go out for drinks afterwards. This was not a good arrangement for somebody with a lot of 8AM classes.

[Shark_61695]

Depends on the role, I'd be more inclined to visit them if they worked in a customer facing role like a bar and the workplace is open to the public then I could be tempted. An office or warehouse would be weird unless they were friends with multiple people.

[RACSKC0B]

Agreed.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I'm shy so for someone to come to see me If I worked would make me feel strange vise versa for me to go to their place of work

[VIVANT]

Same for me I don't know why tho 😬

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@VIVANT Yeah, makes me wonder too :-D

[MrHopper]

It can be uncomfortable but if you do it enough or know a few people there its fine, as long as its after hours. I have met people during the work day who come to pick stuff up and such, its all fine, just part of life

[Andres77]

I work in a secured area.
It's moderate to high risk at times.
I can't receive visitors at work unless I go out to the parking lot on break or during lunch.

[TallAnon]

Both a bit awkward, meeting in front of my work, sure, but not "at" work

[VIVANT]

After work hours would be in front of work I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️

[MysticDevice]

I'm not a fan of the whole visit eachother at work thing. I also work in a factory so its not even possible for people to visit. And I certainly don't like the idea of visiting someone while they're working

[VIVANT]

After work tho lije as they are leaving.

[MysticDevice]

Oh, yeah thats totally different. That'd be fine

[VIVANT]

😊😊

[Phoenix98]

Chances are they wouldn’t find me.

as for me I’m not gonna show up at someone’s work place like that unless we had plans or I texted em to see if they wanted to grab lunch or something.

[EarthRealm]

No I wouldn’t Feel strange because I’m gonna be starting work in government here soon and If anybody I know manages to Get into the building. Security would Come looking for them.

[peedy]

Not at all its actually a pretty common thing to do

[EaterPeter]

Yes if unannounced and out of blue tho it depends on circumstances theirs and mine

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for like!

[Aakash_Hangargi]

The image looks like VFX is used for the bird lol

[VIVANT]

What’s VFX 🙂

[Aakash_Hangargi]

I mean like graphics

[VIVANT]

You Jean as if it were super imposed?

[VIVANT]

That is Aleda. She loves me for my peanut butter but will accept Cheerios.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Yeah like super imposed.

Aleda now when did you guys became friends why didn't you introduce?

[VIVANT]

It happened slowly without my realizing. I think it’s been over the past week. She started coming in to say hello when the screen door was open for Bella. So gave her some treats— now started looking in my fridge and giving my displeasured looks when the bar is empty 😂

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Lol , i could write a book on you 😆

[Philyouup]

yeah i would be uncomfortable, work is sacrosanct, don’t tread there unless
asked

[Synikal]

Yea I'd I lied about my job. When I was younger I used to be embarrassed.

[moonpie89]

Nope. I wouldn't feel weird about that situation.

[Deku2009]

No I don’t fjnd it strange at all both ways.

[Tstrbrainer]

I don't mind either.
Is that Althea?

[VIVANT]

Haha no Althea & hid girlfriend seem to have moved in. They were here for two summers visited frequently but I haven’t seen them this year. I have a family of dives that are around. Aleda - in the pic- is the one in the pic she is a junior which means she hatched this summer and has always been friendly prob bc she grew up around me. She cones in for snacks no one else comes so close tho they seem to understand I mean them no harm. Aleda on the other hand is very demanding 😂

[Tstrbrainer]

That's cool 😃

[VIVANT]

Moved on*

Yeah she’s got huge personality and she anchors the doves around. first year I’ve had doves lol

[humanearth]

Not really

[Anonymous]

I need more to go on.