I‘be been seeing this guy. Idc if he sleeps around bc we’re not exclusive or official. Right now we’re just casually dating. We had a convo about sleeping/ dating other people. He said when/ if he sleeps with other people that it means nothing and it’s just sex but he’d prefer to have a three sum with me which I’m all for. He also went on to say it’s a bit of an ego boost for him sleeping with other women. Now I’m wondering if I’m just an ego boost for him too. We’ve been seeing each other for 2 months now. We’ve hit relationship milestones; admitting to liking each other, I’ve been sleeping at his place almost everyday for 2months, he brings me around his friends, after sex we cuddle and sometimes take a nap, we go on a few dates almost every week, he refers to me as his girlfriend, he’s even went as far as giving me a drawer. We had a convo about the future and he’s said he can see one with me and that he can see this as something more in a few months. He has told me he’s not ready for a relationship bc he’s still dealing with a past 4yr relationship. Everyone I’ve asked advise on this has told me he definitely likes me and is taking it slow (he’s also told me that) and I should just give it a bit more time.
What am I to him really?
