There’s this girl at my job that has gone through 5 different co-workers and tried to throw herself at a 6th co-worker. She’s got two young kids all by different guys and she’s now pregnant by her boss. But every guy she’s messed with has been so infatuated to the point that they wanted to settle down with her. Even when she was due in less than a few months with someone else’s kid, one guy still wanted her back and “loved” her.
I can’t wrap my mind around it. I’ll add a picture of someone who looks similar because she’s not ugly but not “stunning.” And she’s flat chested with no butt. I wish I could learn what it is she’s doing to drive all these men crazy. But the point is: I thought men tended to have fun with girls like that but settle down with someone more serious.
Are men starting to care less about respectability when choosing a wife? Are they becoming more open to “turning a hoe into a housewife”?
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Anonymous
(36-45)
1 y
Lol they’re just railing her for the pussy. I’d probably do the same if everyone was in line. No man honestly wants a girl who’s been around the block and then some. Plus having two kids w different men, soon to be 3. Men run from drama. This has more drama than days of our lives. Maybe she gives good blowjobs that’s why he’s in love w her. The only way I could see a man really in love w a girl like that would be in a situation like Forrest Gump. Forrest loved Jenny every since they were kids, he still loved her even though she got plowed more than a corn field. Other than that no man really wants that.
Also there's a certain way men liked to be talked to. She clearly knows how to do it. I've met a few girls that are like this and especially if they are petite and have a bomb pussy they will have any simp wrapped around their finger. Shit its hard to not want them but id never accept a ho so i still told these girls to beat it when i had enough of them. I've been intimate with 3 women like this. They generally speak to a man in a way that makes him feel like a man, even if he is a wimp. And especially if she's thin or petite. That does something extra to men even if they think they like big assets men are just drawn to thin or petite women.
She goes for desperate men. She finds the easily seduced/manipulated guys. My guess is for validation or so she can tell herself she is wanted. I doubt she's going after the type of guys you would want a serious comitted relationship with.
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1 y
That is very insightful and I think you hit the nail on the head. Each of the guys she's been with that I have known personally are very insecure. The boss is morbidly obese, one guy was insecure and bipolar, one was an awkward virgin who's never had a girlfriend and the last one was in a failing marriage and his wife didn't touch him anymore. In fact, the one guy she got rejected by was the only one who wasn't vulnerable.
Nope. Have no interest in trying to settle down with someone who won’t be able to stay in an exclusive relationship without getting bored and cheating. You’re coworker is probably into some sort of witchcraft or alchemy. That or your male coworkers aren’t very smart.
Either those guys had a similar past and are equally undesirable to good quality people, or they are the desperate type that were never very desirable and will accept a low quality person.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
1 y
Can't speak for all men but this isn't true for me. If I wouldn't want my daughter to grow up to be like her mom, I'm not pursuing her. Dont want me daughter to be a hoe.
Like PT BARNUM said, " There's a sucker born every minute " I'm just not one of them Lol. For her to go through so many guys there's definitely something wrong.
Could be losing respectability. I may come back and edit this after I charge my phone. 👍
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
1 y
It's not that men care less it's lack of viable options when it comes to choosing women. It's no longer a choice between a hoe and a good woman. Guys options are pretty much hoe or slightly lesser of a hoe.
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