Is a turn off if a woman in 20's hasn't dated anyone?

[Anonymous]

Guys is it a turn off if a woman who is in her mid 20's has never ever gone on a date and doesn't have any sexual experience? Never kissed anyone either. Is it frustrating because she has no experience and you will have to teach her everything?

[Effably]

Not really. I think as guys we don't complicate it. Our own willingness to date you already confirms you could have dated if you wanted to.

As always it might lead to a "Why not?" question. Just answer it naturally. You were nervous, had other things, just didn't quite work out or you didn't try actively enough. As long as you can answer that type of question (and you do not need to be super specific!) without being weird about it, other people will naturally adopt your view on it - not weird.

As for the pros and cons, having to teach someone is a little frustrating at times. Getting to teach someone can be a lot of fun. Its all about mindset and how you frame it.

[ArtemisSilver]

Quite the opposite, I like the idea of being a gals first and teaching her how to enjoy sex. Alas as I get older it's less and less common. A twenty something would be a treat. 🙂

[Anonymous]

Don’t worry about it, you should date when you feel ready. I’m 32 and I’m still not ready for that kind of stress. 😄

[Asker]

But how do I know when I am ready

[Opinion Owner]

When you feel prepared or meet new people, you feel you have the time and energy to deal with a new person in your life.

[DarkWinterNights]

I wouldn’t mind. I might prefer it actually since I’ve been single for a long while. A little selfish but I don’t want to be compared to a bunch of other guys.

[jhl_x]

I'm in the same position as a man and this would be the ideal scenario for me, to get started together.

[BarryLiverstone]

I usually have to teach her things so it’s not a big deal. Why wouldn’t she have dated till now?

[Asker]

was dealing with personal issues

[BarryLiverstone]

Still dealing with them?

[Asker]

Kind of but in a much better place

[Asker]

I recently met a guy on a dating app and he said that he can't believe that I have never dated anyone and i thought it is a turn off amd he would be better off with a girl with experience

[BarryLiverstone]

Glad you are in a better place. In any new relationship both people teach the other. Would you be willing to learn tho?

[Asker]

Yeah I am still not sure if I actually want to get into a relationship

[BarryLiverstone]

If you are not sure why be on a dating site?

[Sixgunsound]

@BarryLiverstone that question makes way too much sense

[Asker]

I just wanted to talk to new people and improve my communication skills since I am an introvert.

[BarryLiverstone]

I am also an introvert but that doesn’t mean we are shy. Good to want to talk to people tho, you can be open and share your life with others. Doesn’t have to be on a dating site.

[DavidRaul]

No its not a turn off at all. I for one haven't dated and i would prefer a woman like. Cause everything would feel special

[Sixgunsound]

It’s not frustrating at all, and teaching everything is part of the fun!

[Ironic_Method]

Not in itself, but it'd be unfortunate to find out if we are not sexually compatible and/or she doesn't know how to relationship.

[derekwwwww]

No, because I will probably be the same way.

[DeltaCharlieEcho]

It is a turnoff because it is a lie. Men know that women aren't even virgins anymore once they turn 16.

[Jamie05rhs]

Nope! Not a turn-off. Beginners are accepted and welcome to enroll! Haha

[Berethor]

Virgin girls are better than hos.

[peedy]

No, but maybe the reason why is a turn off

[Anonymous]

It's not a turnoff per se. It's a red flag.

[ChrisMike1919]

Guess that at my age I'm a black flag...

[Anonymous]

No, it is a turn on.

[Asker]

But no experience right

[Opinion Owner]

I prefer that.

[jahaims]

Nope.

[In_Trance]

Red flag for sure

[jimmy2]

Come on over baby no worries