If a guy you're dating flirts with other girls and isn't that dedicated (yet) is it a bad sign?

[Anonymous]

Is it true that guys can grow to like a girl more and become more dedicated to her, or is it true that if they aren't dedicated in the beginning, they just aren't into her like that?

I'm asking because the guy I'm dating (3 months now) and we're exclusive, is apparently flirting with other girls and said to his friends that he's "open to meet girls" behind my back. But his best friend says he's really into me and it doesn't have to be that dedicated at the beginning. Which is right?

[BarryLiverstone]

You said that you are exclusive. If that’s true then he can’t date anyone else. If he is trying then time to talk to him and figure out if you are actually exclusive.


To answer your question yes In the beginning guys can date and flirt with others and then decide to only choose you after time.

[Sixgunsound]

Yes that’s a bad sign. Three months in and he hasn’t made up his mind yet whether he’s still open?

[Sixgunsound]

Thanks for MHO

[Brandi555]

Honestly it depends. If he’s flirting to attract another then absolutely. My friends boyfriend is very flirtatious with girls but if you know him he’s harmless. He does it with everyone and he would never go beyond flirting. He’s such a schmoozer. Lol