Guys, im dating this guy, but his still on dating apps, why?

[Anonymous]

So I've been chatting to this guy for 4 months now and gone on dates with him. I'm thinking it's all going really well. We met at our local sports club. My cousin however found him on Bumble and tinder 2 weeks ago. He said he doesn't use them and forgot they were still active.

I'm a but worried, he still hasn't deleted them...

What's going on?

Keeping his options open

His telling the truth

His dating other girls

[integrale77]

Similar situation here over time while single I've joined a few dating/hookup apps.
I deleted what I was using on my phone within a few months but left the accounts active it would be a massive job to close down all the accounts and I'm not paying for any so I'll just let them gather dust or maybe just let them naturally close due to inactivity.

If you are really worried he's using them to meet others, setup another account borrowing other pictures online and message him saying your DTF and see if he responds?

[Freyke]

You're not official just yet so anything goes. You're both technically still looking for a partner.

[Asker]

So his not taking me seriously? We go on dates maybe every 2nd week. Talk everyday?

[Freyke]

Sure he is taking it seriously, but nothing is official yet. As long as he isn't your actual boyfriend, you are both free to keep fishing.

[petitedollbabee]

You’re dating, not in a relationship, so unless you’ve discussed and agreed on being exclusive - there’s nothing wrong here. Although it’s a red flag that he’s lied about those accounts not being active. No one keeps dating profiles active unless they’re using them.

[serenanim]

there's nothing wrong with that because he's not ur boyfriend yet? u guys still in knowimg each other phase and he open to other option.

[Gent207]

He's not dating you

[Asker]

But we talk everyday?

[Gent207]

If you talked to him and mentioned how it bothers you and he still hasn't deleted them. Then he's not dating you

[RuthlessAggression]

is he actively using them?

[Danny718718]

Make a fake profile and see if he answers

[driven159]

once you comit to a relationship then worry

[Logan_96v]

He’s a slut, drop his ass ASAP

[Asker]

Why do you think?

[Logan_96v]

When someone is dating someone else, they should only be focused on that person, in my opinion. If he is on a dating app, he’s keeping his options open, meaning that he doesn’t view loyalty the same way that you do—that’s why you’re asking this question, it makes you insecure, and rightfully so.