Okay there’s this woman I’ve known for about 5 years but we were never friends, more like acquaintances. We’ve known each other through a young adult group. I don’t see her very often and when I do I don’t have much time to talk with her or it’s very difficult to because this young adult group is so large everyone’s trying to talk with each other so it’s hard to get her alone. I don’t have her number or anything like that. She was dating someone up until I think late 2018. He broke up with her and she told me she thought I would marry him. Well anyway, there was an event in 2019 and I did get to talk with her somewhat. After the event I added her as a friend and she neither accepted or declined the request, but get this, I have messaged her a couple times and she always responds to me. At this event I told her my age and I’m 8 years older than her. She is also on the same dating site as me and she recently came up as a match, meaning I’m in her preferred age range. Before we were both on this website and she never came up as a match, meaning she now adjusted her age range and I now fit that age range. So here’s what I’m thinking, she initially wasn’t interested in me because I was above her age range, but now that I am maybe she will reconsider me. I can’t say I’m really in the friend zone with her as we aren’t really friends. Also too, we haven't seen each other in like 2 years because of Covid. We saw each other for the first time in January since Covid and she was friendly and engaging to me, but we were in line getting food and we also didn't sit at the same table, so we couldn’t really talk. I’m guessing she isn’t adding me to Facebook as a friend because she thinks I like her romantically and she doesn’t want to give me any ideas or she really does like me and she wants me to ask her out. Lastly, we were both at an event and she was playing cards with other people at a different table and she smiled at me from afar three times.
Ladies, can you decipher this? ?
