When the person you like/crushing/interested in leaves you on read/seen and doesn’t continue the convo, how do you feel or act?

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Do you feel crushed they don’t feel the same as you? Do you feel they don’t want to know you? Or do you try to keep the conversation going so they’ll finally reply? Or you just wait for them to reply as they also have a life 😂 and not be overdramatic which is a turn off 😑 😂

pizzalovershouse · Accepted Answer

If they are not into you your better off stop chatting with them an move on so you have not wasted time but young females have a way of giving a guy mixed signals so he might like to go out with her but ge figures she isn't into him so then the girl is mad she wasted time on him an he I thinking time to find a new girl who knows how to give the right signals like when a girl strikes her hair an talk's to him with eye contact an you see her eyes are saying you are so hot I want to be with you

WeirdoFriendly · Accepted Answer

I honestly don't care about being left on read by anyone. No matter if it's a crush or just a friend. I'll just go do something else until they text back.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

That they're:

Distracted or busy
Not sure what to say so they just end the conversation
They're uninterested

I've learned over the years not to let it bother me. It just means we don't click and to move on. If they want to reach out, or if he's genuinely interested in me, he'll message me on his own.

khayecv02 · Accepted Answer

Most people can’t be on their screen all the time as we all have a life. But if that person doesn’t respond to you for like a week or 2 and just keep on ignoring you, then you should be moving on.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

If someone wants you in their life, they'll make time for you...  Don't ever make someone your priority if you're not theirs... Meaning don't give your time to people that don't "have time" for you...

grapefruit11 · Answer

I used to feel hurt and a bit rejected, but I’d also make excuses for them. I used to just try to be more interesting next time. But all the guys who ever left me on read or didn’t put much effort into the conversation had something in common: they were NOT interested. Some of them wanted to have sex but none of them liked me as a person.

I’ve learned what it really looks like when a guy is interested in me. They want to talk to me as often as possible and they keep the conversation going even if I say something that doesn’t necessarily elicit a response. So now, if a guy doesn’t answer me and I find myself worrying if I’ll hear from him again, I know it’s time to move on.

Wubs3000 · Answer

uhh if I'm crushing on someone usually I will overthink it for a bit and wonder if I did something wrong.
Say I have a scale on what i think the likelyhood they like me back is, it will bring the scale down like 5%.
Then if it happens often or long enough, I will just lose interest.

With my partner if they do it, I just sometimes wonder if they aren't as interested as before, but I shrug it off because they do have their own life lmao

If it happens long enough then maybe I will get a little bit annoyed but I never voice it, and it just goes away once they reply.

People who get dramatic over it don't make sense to me. If it happens long and hard enough just ask simply whats happening or just don't talk to them anymore. No need to make it such a fuss

hIopinionated_ · Answer

I can take quite the dramatic action against that (like delete their number, block them, be done, etc) but I try really hard to be understanding. So instead I would go on about my day and leave it alone; no blocking or crazy thinking. Though even if I have crazy thinking I wouldn’t act on it, I would just wait and see. I’ll try again maybe a few days later and if no response (on read and all that jazz) I won’t respond ever even if they finally respond later. I just hate games. I like to know things, everything

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

I usually bug them with more messages and they almost always come back with some sort of reason (excuse maybe?) about what happened and they apologize.

Yeah it can be a bit sad when they do that, when anyone does that.

Its possible too they need to ponder what to say next and just forget to come back to it.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

When it happens I feel extremely depressed and I shield myself in silence. Years ago I would have wrote to that person with a lot of anxiety, but nowadays I’m more attentive about my dignity so I prefer to ignore the fact, keep myself my pain and I disappear from that person’s life.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

The only time I was actually crushed is when this girl left me on Read but I wasn't even asking her out; I was just having a friendly conversation. And we were actual friends (or had been, back in the day.). That hurt. I think that's a pretty rude thing to do to someone that you actually know, if you have no beef with them and they have never harmed you in any way.

Still-alive · Answer

I get a little anxious not gonna lie lol. but as long as i get some kind of explanation im good. like a 'sorry im a bit busy' is good enough for me.

I thought you were doing this to me for a second... then i remembered you work a lot so lol. we good :*

Sonorous · Answer

When I was young I used to be all up in arms.. But now if I actually cared about people to want to reach out to them, I'd take it less seriously. Because I'd see it as more of a loss on their part to not have me in their life.

ShaTTeredMasterpeace · Answer

I don't think it's being overdramatic to be annoyed when someone leaves you on read or doesn't respond for days. Lol THAT is a turn off and the quickest way to get deleted and never thought about again 🤷🏾‍♀️

Dinklex3 · Answer

If they don't reply they probably have a reason, lol. I'm guilty of that. If I'm being overdramatic and really need something I'll spam them and type their name a couple times, lol.

ObscuredBeyond · Answer

If they vanish without explanation for an hour, it's slightly rude, but there's probably a reason. If they vanish for a day, whatever. If they vanish for three months, I start asking questions.

1GoldTwins · Answer

I don't talk to my crushes just for the sake of talking to them, only when it really matters, because then they will always reply :)

Marshymallow · Answer

I usually won’t notice until a few days. If they still don’t respond after many days then it’s like “yikes”, it does leave a bad impression.

NathanDavis · Answer

I'm not sure, I never leave it to texting or online... if I want you then I will get you in person

JDavid25 · Answer

Depends of how long me and that crush has been talking and if I noticed a pattern that was becoming disrupted..

melanieeeB · Answer

I'm juts like "mhmm whatever, fuck that" and that's it

MrPickles13 · Answer

That image is pretty accurate for how I fell after. It does hurt and well I do sometimes try to restart talking to them but I do leave it a bit first. But part of this is determined by how I know them and if I used to talk to them aot before.

Zolly99999 · Answer

It really depends on the person I guess. Some people are super busy. I try not to take it personally. If someone messages me I always try my best to reply. Especially if I am interested in them.

beebella · Answer

I feel like they don't want to talk to me, so I should just leave them alone. 😅

Nikki1989 · Answer

It's OK. I know people have lives and other things to do.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Wouldn’t spend too much time on it. Talk to multiple guys till one is worth my time.

AsaKyo · Answer

Luckily, I don't have this problem  And if he does leave, he's usually just busy with his family or doing chores

dragoblack · Answer

Little sad, fugures she's busy with personal life stuff, just disappointed and move on with my life. Being denied doesn't give a guy right to be an asshole. It's best to just accept it and move on.

dailyoctopus94 · Answer

People have lives and things going on in them. I'm not about to get pressed over response time, especially when I have other things to do as well. 😂

bigpauly · Answer

I do feel self conscious. But I let it go. Either they have something else going on or are no longer interested. Either way bombarding them won’t help any lol.

Putriz · Answer

I don’t mind. Maybe they just didn’t have time to answer. Maybe not. I don't know.

SpaceRainbows · Answer

In my case, he has a girlfriend, they're really cute lol but no yea sometimes feel quite crushed about him not liking me tho ofc.

He does message back but if he doesn't i just wait, i don't want to be annoying lol

Ironic_Method · Answer

I don't know, I've never had a crush on anyone that wasn't interested in talking with me.

ArtemisSilver · Answer

Mildly disappointed, I've always got lots of other conversations on the go though

Jerre · Answer

I usually let them respond when they have time. I know most people are fairly busy with their lives

Waldoe · Answer

I am concerned that something Bad happened to them, because I am AWESOME and people like me

Guardian45 · Answer

Yes, its unfortunate, but it's all good, because the lack of response is telling.

LoyalAffectionate · Answer

I can be hurt. I don't try to communicate because a woman will know how she feels. If she feels to have contact, she will.

PinkCloud7 · Answer

I assume it's nothing personal and not worth getting hung up on.

isoterminal2060 · Answer

I personally wouldn't want my significant other knowing my true feelings from the military Period. They are mine to take

RavVid · Answer

Can be disappointing but move on.

Shadow_Monarch · Answer

A bit sad. But I get over it.

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

If I rlly like them I kinda get sad/embarrassed 😂

ChiTown33 · Answer

Common sense applies.

Xtendable · Answer

I think they may be busy…

LavLavLuv · Answer

A bit like shit but it depends really

Anonymous · Answer

I feel proud... I make them speechless...😜

Fuentes · Answer

I block them for wasting my time.

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