Same with women why do u assume tall good looking guys are taken or they got side bitches
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Because they are generally taken or are rude to guys who aren't on the same or more attractive level. I have only heard that there are pretty girls who are also kind, and good in nature but all the once I know are always totally opposite.
Guys notice pretty women. All the time. It's an instinct for us. But unless we know we're super hot, or super rich, we know that there's no chance a girl like that would be interested in us. And there's a high chance that she already has someone. You girls need to start making the first step.
I had people assume I was married when I had a station wagon.
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It's a similar reason why most Girls go for more Confident Guys and usually ignore Shy Nice Guys, I think it's just that most of the Girls we have liked before or we have been Rejected by have ended up not being Single.
This is why men and women are not the same. Women think completely different. You say that but most men know that a pretty attractive woman has options and admirers and is more than likely taken
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Because it's easier to make the assumption and not make a move than it is to make a move and be shot down
@Subarugirl men are five times as likely to be murdered , never taught to be careful , in fact conditioned to ignore their own personal safety and are the most targeted by scammers and criminals online dating. .
Think about it, if you want to rob someone it's 1000 times easier to get a guy to show up.
@Subarugirl it's easier for a man to get murdered then to find a relationship online. And IMHO a better end result.
Job interviews are easier to get and more fun than dating is for a man.
If I had all the money I spent being used because "I'm a man and it's men's job" I could have retired at 27.
Women have 19,000 ways of saying "let them eat cake" , they won't admit dating is truly horrible for men , as in I'd rather eat glass and die a slow painful death kinda harsh.
Again it's easier to explain physics to a rock then explain to women the absolute hell that is the modern dating environment for men , and you'll get more understanding from a rock.
@Slartybartfast no one is forcing you into a relationship and it kind of sounds like you are trying to justify just how many women are sexually assaulted. If you don't want to be in a relationship then don't be in one. Obviously you don't see value in it and that is absolutely fine... so why are you complaining about it?
@Subarugirl wow, you stretched that out with a totally horrible and hominem attack on my character which just proves the other poster correct about women trying to ruin a man with words.
@Slartybartfast uhhh no I'm just saying that is how its coming across...… im not attacking your character hon, im just letting you know how what you are saying is coming across, because I am pretty sure that wasn't your intention, and I thought that you should know.
@Subarugirl some of the guys here do exagerate bit but it is stoll much harder for a guy to date. I don't like dating at all- it is a lot of work, a lot of stress, and is not fun at all- going on a date is more of an unpleasant chore for most men. This is the main reason I don't date anymore- I find that my life ia less stressfull.
And for the recod I am not ugly nor am I an incel.
@Texaskid1 you shouldn't have to preemptively deny an attack on your person like being called an incel etc. Ad hominem is as bad as whataboutism these days.
@Texaskid1 and there is nothing wrong with that... how ever what I do have a problem with is when I see someone complain about how unfair things are then then admiralty they don't want it anyways, but still complain about something that doesn't apply to them. That would be like me bitching and moaning about how unfair and unenjoyable basketball is while explicitly expressing how I have no desire to play or watch it...
@Slartybartfast I wasn't attacking you hon, I can see that this is an emotional topic for you but I was trying to communicate how what you were saying was coming across, next time I will try to be more delicate so that you don't feel so attacked.
@Subarugirl If women are Sooooo worried about getting killed/trafficked than why do Sooooo many women ride the Tinder cock carousel? It seems women are. ire afraid of nit getting attention than of getting killed.
@KrakenAttackin most don't... but those that do stay safe by not being a complete moron and meeting up with strangers in an isolated place where no one knows where they are. They turn on their location, meet in a public place, carry mace, let their friends know where they are going and keep their drinks covered... as former law enforcement, I would have thought that you'd know that.
@Subarugirl As a former LEO I know what women SHOULD do, but I see women bouncing from guy to guy and keeping a "roster", which only elevates potential for harm.
@KrakenAttackin So I guess the phrase "a notch on his belt" was just a phrase used to describe that tiny minority... that odd though since, statistically man have 2 more sexual partner in their life time than women do on average.
@Slartybartfast first of all I was not apologizing I was clarifying. Secondly, I did not say nor did I imply that you are delicate. What I did do is imply that this is a sensitive topic for you... which it obviously is.
For future reference, do not confuse my bluntness for impudence... If I were trying to insult or attack you I would do so out right and make it exceedingly clear that was what I was doing.
@Subarugirl well you are completely wrong. Statically men are murdered every day. Plus men are mostly victims of violence. Instead of just spitting things out just do you're research. Also the men who are more likely to rape you or murder you are the men you already know. Not strangers it's the men you already know.
@Subarugirl oddly enough men are actually more likely to be raped in United States and that is only because of our prison system. We are also more likely to be violently assaulted.
But we're stronger on average and more capable of defending ourselves if it's an unarmed, singular attacker.
@Juxtapose and how is that the case when 1 in 4 women are sexually assaulted in their lifetime while for men it's 1 in 33? and who are the primary perpetrators of sexual violence?
@Subarugirl men are clearly the rapists in male prisons.
"After asking around, and performing some calculations, the Justice Department came up with a new number: 216,000. That's 216,000 victims, not instances. These victims are often assaulted multiple times over the course of the year. The Justice Department now seems to be saying that prison rape accounted for the majority of all rapes committed in the US in 2008, likely making the United States the first country in the history of the world to count more rapes for men than for women."
so you say They are not dating and they are having a hard time getting a boyfriend. Which is it?
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Anyone who looks good is wanted and admired by many. It's not exclusive to women. I'm an attractive man and I can't count the number of women who admired me just for my looks only.
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"Beautiful nice women" is perspective.
Because most are taken and if you are a girl there is a freaking guy whose admiring you , you might just not know it
Cuz usely most beautiful or pretty girls are seen around a guy or guys or weR a wedding ring or a ring that looks like a partner ring
But there are beautiful ladies who are totally unlucky
Very true
Its because 99% of the cases it is like that
Same with women why do u assume tall good looking guys are taken or they got side bitches
Because they are generally taken or are rude to guys who aren't on the same or more attractive level. I have only heard that there are pretty girls who are also kind, and good in nature but all the once I know are always totally opposite.
Because pretty women attract many men, which increase a lot the chances of her getting one she likes.
It's that simple.
I know many pretty women who are still single, have no boyfriend no date anything beause guys do not notice them
Guys notice pretty women. All the time. It's an instinct for us.
But unless we know we're super hot, or super rich, we know that there's no chance a girl like that would be interested in us. And there's a high chance that she already has someone.
You girls need to start making the first step.
@kitty71 @Guanfei is right. We definitely do notice you. But you have to make the first move.
I had people assume I was married when I had a station wagon.
It's a similar reason why most Girls go for more Confident Guys and usually ignore Shy Nice Guys, I think it's just that most of the Girls we have liked before or we have been Rejected by have ended up not being Single.
When you’re ugly, and someone loves you, you know they love you for who you are. Beautiful people never know who to trust.
All the pretty ones I see have engagement rings on and are taken , if not they just don’t want to date anyone
This is why men and women are not the same. Women think completely different. You say that but most men know that a pretty attractive woman has options and admirers and is more than likely taken
Because it's easier to make the assumption and not make a move than it is to make a move and be shot down
Cmon seriously? And I'm sure women are shocked when a man says he is single.
Some guys just find it scary to approach them and fill in their own thoughts for them lol
it down to the others guy looking at your girl all the time
Because because that's as good an excuse as any for why they are too shy to approach beautiful woman
It's true beauty can belie reality. Lord knows my troubles.😆
Well statistics prove that women have way more options than men do on dating apps and online dating
and that makes sense considering that is more dangerous and much higher risk for women..
@Subarugirl can a man ruin your life with a single accusation?
@Juxtapose I'm more concerned about losing my life or being raped or trafficked than my reputation.
@Subarugirl men are five times as likely to be murdered , never taught to be careful , in fact conditioned to ignore their own personal safety and are the most targeted by scammers and criminals online dating. .
Think about it, if you want to rob someone it's 1000 times easier to get a guy to show up.
@Slartybartfast and you think that’s a good thing?….
@Subarugirl it's easier for a man to get murdered then to find a relationship online. And IMHO a better end result.
Job interviews are easier to get and more fun than dating is for a man.
If I had all the money I spent being used because "I'm a man and it's men's job" I could have retired at 27.
Women have 19,000 ways of saying "let them eat cake" , they won't admit dating is truly horrible for men , as in I'd rather eat glass and die a slow painful death kinda harsh.
Again it's easier to explain physics to a rock then explain to women the absolute hell that is the modern dating environment for men , and you'll get more understanding from a rock.
@Slartybartfast no one is forcing you into a relationship and it kind of sounds like you are trying to justify just how many women are sexually assaulted.
If you don't want to be in a relationship then don't be in one. Obviously you don't see value in it and that is absolutely fine... so why are you complaining about it?
@Subarugirl wow, you stretched that out with a totally horrible and hominem attack on my character which just proves the other poster correct about women trying to ruin a man with words.
Typical.
@Slartybartfast uhhh no I'm just saying that is how its coming across...… im not attacking your character hon, im just letting you know how what you are saying is coming across, because I am pretty sure that wasn't your intention, and I thought that you should know.
@Subarugirl some of the guys here do exagerate bit but it is stoll much harder for a guy to date. I don't like dating at all- it is a lot of work, a lot of stress, and is not fun at all- going on a date is more of an unpleasant chore for most men. This is the main reason I don't date anymore- I find that my life ia less stressfull.
And for the recod I am not ugly nor am I an incel.
@Texaskid1 you shouldn't have to preemptively deny an attack on your person like being called an incel etc. Ad hominem is as bad as whataboutism these days.
@Texaskid1 and there is nothing wrong with that... how ever what I do have a problem with is when I see someone complain about how unfair things are then then admiralty they don't want it anyways, but still complain about something that doesn't apply to them.
That would be like me bitching and moaning about how unfair and unenjoyable basketball is while explicitly expressing how I have no desire to play or watch it...
@Slartybartfast I wasn't attacking you hon, I can see that this is an emotional topic for you but I was trying to communicate how what you were saying was coming across, next time I will try to be more delicate so that you don't feel so attacked.
@Subarugirl If women are Sooooo worried about getting killed/trafficked than why do Sooooo many women ride the Tinder cock carousel? It seems women are. ire afraid of nit getting attention than of getting killed.
@KrakenAttackin most don't... but those that do stay safe by not being a complete moron and meeting up with strangers in an isolated place where no one knows where they are. They turn on their location, meet in a public place, carry mace, let their friends know where they are going and keep their drinks covered... as former law enforcement, I would have thought that you'd know that.
@Subarugirl As a former LEO I know what women SHOULD do, but I see women bouncing from guy to guy and keeping a "roster", which only elevates potential for harm.
@KrakenAttackin yeah and I see guys do the same thing... however it is odd that you don't seem to take issue when they do it.
@Subarugirl Only a tiny fraction of men do this.
@KrakenAttackin So I guess the phrase "a notch on his belt" was just a phrase used to describe that tiny minority... that odd though since, statistically man have 2 more sexual partner in their life time than women do on average.
@Subarugirl "delicate", while spearing to 'apologize' you sneak in a side jab implying I'm delicate. Sly..
@Slartybartfast first of all I was not apologizing I was clarifying. Secondly, I did not say nor did I imply that you are delicate. What I did do is imply that this is a sensitive topic for you... which it obviously is.
For future reference, do not confuse my bluntness for impudence... If I were trying to insult or attack you I would do so out right and make it exceedingly clear that was what I was doing.
@Subarugirl well you are completely wrong. Statically men are murdered every day. Plus men are mostly victims of violence. Instead of just spitting things out just do you're research. Also the men who are more likely to rape you or murder you are the men you already know. Not strangers it's the men you already know.
@chicosuave yes I am aware of that…. So what exactly was I wrong about
@chicosuave So who is killing these men? women? nonsense :d
Women are the main victims of domestic violence. Go and look at the stats
@Subarugirl oddly enough men are actually more likely to be raped in United States and that is only because of our prison system. We are also more likely to be violently assaulted.
But we're stronger on average and more capable of defending ourselves if it's an unarmed, singular attacker.
@Juxtapose and how is that the case when 1 in 4 women are sexually assaulted in their lifetime while for men it's 1 in 33? and who are the primary perpetrators of sexual violence?
@Subarugirl men are clearly the rapists in male prisons.
"After asking around, and performing some calculations, the Justice Department came up with a new number: 216,000. That's 216,000 victims, not instances. These victims are often assaulted multiple times over the course of the year. The Justice Department now seems to be saying that prison rape accounted for the majority of all rapes committed in the US in 2008, likely making the United States the first country in the history of the world to count more rapes for men than for women."
www.google.com/.../us-more-men-raped-than-women
so you say They are not dating and they are having a hard time getting a boyfriend. Which is it?
Anyone who looks good is wanted and admired by many. It's not exclusive to women. I'm an attractive man and I can't count the number of women who admired me just for my looks only.