I'm a 19 yr old girl. My guy's 20. We've been dating for a little over 4 months now.
He's really big on valuing inner beauty over outer beauty.
Recently I sent him a playful text asking "what part of me do you find attractive?"
He sent a response saying "I'm not really that interested in looks if you remember. That said, you look just fine".
Can't quite explain why but his response made me want to cry a little.
I love that he values personality and character. But truth is... I wish he would've indulged me. I wish he would've told me that he really likes my long chocolate waves or my lips or hips or something...
I'm wondering: Is it stupid that I actually want him to objectify me? To tell me how sexy I am?
(And anyone who wants to tell me to stop being shallow, don't bother, I already feel guilty enough for not just feeling grateful that I found such a sweetheart like him who cares more about personality and character than looks).