You are in a panic because you feel that you have lost control over something that affects your body. The boyfriend should have never discussed this with his mother, and his mother should not be butting in. HINT: This guy is probably not The One.
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You have to remember that regardless of what anyone else wants, this is your decision. They can’t decide this for you. These are hormones going into your body, after all.
I’d really take this opportunity to assert your boundaries and tell them that you appreciate their recommendation, but you’ll have to take your time to think about what it is that you want.
They should never have any control over your body.
It is not their decision to make. Stand your ground on that.
What do YOU want? Do you prefer to stay with condoms? Do you want to take the pill or any other contraceptives? Or you can also pitch the idea of him getting a vasectomy - they are reversible and not a big procedure.
Sure you want your kids to have a grandmother like that?
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Fact of the matter is, these things are meant to private and not to be spoken about with other family members for reasons that are obvious.
He crossed the boundary, speak with him or cut ties.She knows that he will be pounding you hard but neither of them want you to have his babies
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