Was I rude to his friend?

[Anonymous]

So I was at a bar the other night and a guy approached me as I got a drink. Nice, cute, not really my type but I chatted with him. He invited me over to a table with 2 female 1male friend and HIS FRIEND and I hit it off immediately. He liked a lot of the same music, movies so I ended up sitting closer to him - gave my number etc. No one really said anything or seem to care about it then, but as I was telling a friend, they said I should apologize to the first guy? Really? It's not like were on a date or something, I just liked his friend more. I'm not from this country so it's a kind of cultural taboo? I don't really understand what was wrong.

[DaveJord]

Nah, you got nothing to apologize for... how do you know the other guy was not his wing man?

If the first guy got his feeling hurt then his friend needs to apologize not you. You own him nothing. If I was at the bar with my friends and I wanted to pick up a girl, last thing I would do was bring her back to my table where the group of friends were at... unless I was doing for my friend.

If I wanted to pick her up for me, then I would of sat at the bar with her or got a separate table.

[Guy13]

There's nothing wrong in my book id you are in USA. If you are in Asia then it was by his consideration that you were introduced. You dishonored him by doing that publicly if outside of USA...

[xiaolian]

If it is a "friend" , u can apologize but u need say he is just friend and u like the other guy, he already knows, only if u feel better

[maximumpower]

This was a spontaneous meeting and not exclusive.
You don't owe anyone an apology.