Guys, Does withdrawing from women really work when you get a vibe they might be losing interest?

[Anonymous]

I got a very beautiful prospect on the line right now. She’s much younger and inexperienced but a daydream come true if I can pull off a fling.

I started getting a disinterested vibe from her towards the end of last text conversation last Saturday. I did text her a simple “what up” the next day and she didn’t respond. Haven’t heard from her since.

I learned the hard way over the years the worst thing you can do is too keep contacting women in these scenarios. I remember Corey Wayne saying “a cat will be a cat and you must LET it”.

My game plan is to not contact her until next weekend unless she messages me first. When we do chat I am going to arrange to meet up.

Just curious if this has worked well for the rest of you. Truth is I wanted to hang out this weekend but I could screw it all up.

[Smoothing]

If she is in her early twenties, then don't waste your time. If she is in her late twenties, then take it at face value. She has clearly lost interest. Women are not as complicated as we think.

If a woman likes you and she is mature, there will be no confusion. If she doesn't like you, she will make things hard for you until you get the hint.

Young girls in their early twenties though are all over the place and very hard to deal with.

Trust me dealing with someone of your maturity level is much easier and more fun.

But if flings are too important for you where you don't mind the headache, good luck. Just don't do something you will regret.

[Asker]

Yeah I figured. I am not exclusively “chasing” young girls but she happened to come along. I know they are in and out of love in 5 minutes.

[OlderAndWiser]

Have you ever met her in person?

[jhl_x]

No. She's probably talking to other guys. Move on.

[Asker]

She keeps claiming she is very inexperienced. Never even kissed a guy. Hard to believe.

[MangoBob]

Yep, it works