Why am I constantly out of place and always the one confused and embarrassing myself? I’m pretty, smart, and funny why doesn’t anyone notice me?

[Anonymous]

I’ve tried everything but even on my best day im still the one embarrassing myself. I do everything to make myself pretty and I’m still not even given a second glance. I’m funny and smart and people still don’t care. I don’t know how everyone else around me has all these friends and boyfriends and doesn’t fuck up every ten seconds. How other people don’t have thing wrong with them that everyone else but them seems to notice until it’s too late to fix. I’m so tired and I feel so hopeless I’ll never be normal and all I want to do is fit in.

[justEric]

Maybe you're looking at the wrong people. All of us have a personality and they not always fit in well with the people that are closer to us. Could be just that you're a certain type of person who is not so common in your circle. Try to list your interests, see who likes the same stuff, invite them to do something together and start bonding by what you want, not what you think other people might want from you

[Rockstarrrrr]

When you feel under appreciated you tend to become very self aware and it'll give you some sort of social anxiety and make you become over friendly and that can be so draining so you'll have a lot more awkward and out of character moments... And people can sense when you're insecure and vulnerable and they'll probably think it's unattractive... How can you get rid of all that? By getting proper care and affection from people who are close to you... That's what every human needs...

[Truthatanycost]

You are trying too hard. Learn to be in the now, to be present and not to be perfect and it will be easier. Read the book 'The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life by Mark Manson'

[J2ohhhhh]

This is too little information to answer what's disconnecting you from others.

[Asker]

Can’t explain my whole life story to you man, my therapist can’t find an issue with me so I doubt you will either. Genuinely no reason, it’s just impossible I’m invisible to people around me no matter how good or ideal of a person I become.

[J2ohhhhh]

I've been in your place. I'm tall, athletic, good looking, smart, funny, humble lol. Yet know a few things about being invisible and I broke the curse.

[Asker]

how?

[J2ohhhhh]

I became a vegan... Just kidding. It came with time. I kinda understood people, myself and how the two can be compatible.

[FilmGuy93]

They just aren't thinking about things every second of every day.

[Guy13]

Relax. Is your vibe negative ⁉️

[Asker]

I meditation and manifest frequently. I’m a pretty spiritual person and I’ve always kept and been told I have great energy I just feel awful and unloveable right now. I don’t know what makes me so different from everyone else?

[Guy13]

There is such a thing as spiritually freaky. Manifest people have a reputation of being freaky. In fact, two of my friends the first set of questions is if the girl is one of those Manifest people? The name and claim Stuff crowd, right?

[Asker]

the girl? I don't know man I menifest stuff by just believing the stuff that I want will happen to me if I live in that mentality. Never had an issue and almost every manifestation no matter how specific has worked for me.🤷‍♀️

[Guy13]

I just texted Eric. They call them vending machines... put a dollar in and whatever one wills or wishes happens in real life. Those girls think they are center of everything, lack reality, and common sense. They are not suited for me ( him )

[Asker]

I have 0 idea what you are talking about, who your friend is, and how this relates to my question?

[Guy13]

I am trying to figure out a possible reason for your difficulty from the characteristics of yourself provided. I happen to know some guys who have dealt with spiritual manifest people. I gave you their feedback... Ask the people around you... I am sure they know, why?

[Asker]

Even my therapist says my only issue is that I tend to be too caring towards others and that my social skills are on point. Genuinely don’t no know what’s wrong.