I’ve (24yr girl) been talking to this guy (30yr) for 3 months, he recently said can’t commit to a relationship, and wanted a friends with benefits situation. I said no and cut things off since I wanted more. Now I miss him, and considering friends with benefits, but wondering if he’ll even still want to have anything with me. Should I just move on?
Move on, don't do something you know you'll regret, the great thing about emotions is that they eventually fade away, yours will too and you'll find love with a guy that actually appreciates you, he "can't" is just a cheap ass excuse for he doesn't want to enough... Please don't make such a mistake
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If you want a relationship, find a guy who's compatible and also wants one. Don't waste your time chasing someone who doesn't want what you want.
Did you forget you were using your male account?
Why conform out of fear of being alone? Find someone new.
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He'd probably still be down, yeah. But you shouldn't do it. You'll just get emotionally destroyed.
Yes. Move on with your life.
It's dumb to want to be with someone whose not gonna be there for long or the long runI would tell him just to go for it Friends with benefits is the best
You know you have a male profile, right?
Move on.
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