Do you think its harder for a man with no experience at 29 to be successful with dating?

[Anonymous]

I’m 29 and I’ve never dated, it seems like its just gonna be really hard at this point because not many girls in my age group will want to be with someone who has no experience. Most of them have experience and it seems like they would prefer an experienced partner (both in relationships and sex) than someone who has little to no experience with any of it. I feel like a lot of guys who try to start dating for the first time at an older age like mine are just met with nonstop rejection because no one is willing to give an inexperienced guy a chance.

Yes, its harder

No, it isn’t any harder because of that

[Guy13]

Yes it is as there probably is an existing level of immaturity that may be challenging to deal with

[Asker]

Immature how? You mean it would end up being like a high school relationship for her?

[Guy13]

It depends on your willingness to be led. She’s going to be better equipped in and for relationship. Make sense?

[Asker]

Yeah, I know that most girls don’t want that though. They want the guy to lead, they don’t want to have to lead someone through their first relationship when he’s a grown man entering his 30’s. I think that most of the time, they’ll pass on him and go with a guy who has an average amount of experience for his age. Would you agree?

[Guy13]

No. Some women enjoy molding their man. And. I mean Their man. You probably need to yourself one that sees clay when she looks at you.

[Asker]

Well I guess I’m as clay as they come because I also still live at home with my parents and don’t have a job right now. Some of that needs to be taken care of on my own though, because I don’t think too many women want to date a NEET who lives in their parents basement.

[Guy13]

Yes. Fix all of that 🙄

[Asker]

The job thing won’t be too hard to fix, the living situation will be harder though because people who work full time struggle to afford rent prices in my area. A tiny studio apartment in a bad neighborhood goes for $1,400 in my area.

[melanieeeB]

No not at all, but I think it's harder when you're an insecure person about this