Non smokers what would you do if your date wants you to smoke weed together?

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Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Politely decline them and say no thank you and explain to them why , I have smoked weed before and my experiences with weed isn’t the greatest so I tend to not smoke it when I am on a date with a girl , considering I have done it before on dates and it ruined my chances 2 times with girls that I just say no to it , and not take the chance of ruining the date lol some weed makes me paranoid and makes me think weird shit to the point I become nervous and I start analyzing shit in my head and she starts looking at me like I am some fucking psycho to the point it doesn’t become fun anymore , The Weed today is just something I can’t really handle like others can , I call it wheelchair shit , cuz some of it makes me feel like I am in a coma , and can barely move out of my chair, so to me that isn’t fun , so the fact that it ruined my chances with 2 hot girls that were all over me before I smoked weed I just say No to it now and realize it isn’t worth it. If she wants to smoke go for it , some people can handle it , I have nothing against weed it’s just not really my thing , I do smoke on occasion with friends but pretty much right before I am going to bed , it does help me sleep good or if I am dealing with muscle pain it helps with that as well, So again I have really nothing against it other than ruining my chances of getting laid lol

Adam1978 · Accepted Answer

Reject it and head home, no future dates with her.

dustybiker · Accepted Answer

I use the plant for migraines, myself, countless times. It’s help catch and stop more than one in the early stages without side effects (unlike prescribed poison).

Have used it (regulated) to effectively control cancer and seizures in pets. I have never smoked it though.

I’d ask them to hold off until I’m gone. Maybe suggest edibles for when I’d be around. I wouldn’t tell them how to live their life though.

SeriouslyFunny00 · Accepted Answer

Holy smokes! I will RUN. 🤧🏃🏻‍♀️

MrOracle · Answer

I'd take her home so she can live her life the way she wants to - it just won't be in mine.

Cynicaldreamer · Answer

Guess he's smoking alone.
I don't date smokers. No offense if you're into that, but I'm not. I'd politely ask him not to do that around me.

And relationship wise? Yeah... I don't see it lasting at all.

molonski2 · Answer

I don't just accept the likes of " weed " as harmless and okey , there is absolutely no way Id be smoking anything , yet alone weed , ever gain , its really harmful , its an obvious deal breaker , association is everything in life , these kind of associations are simply not going to benefit a fit individual.

No thanks.

Nor should the thought be harbored that this is somehow a harmless practice , weed and hash are extremely dangerous , and putting smoke into your lungs is never a good thing.

NathanDavis · Answer

no thanks...

I just can't stand smoke like that.. it stinks

that's my only problem with it... I can be very peculiar with smell, aromas and scents... and smokers do stink

literally, every single breath I would take in when I'd be with you... it would be an assault to my senses, I can literally taste the ashes in my mouth as well lmao

so no thanks... lol

petitedollbabee · Answer

Kindly decline, but tell them they’re welcome to smoke it alone as I’m not against that. I just don’t partake. If they continue insisting that I do it with them and won’t stop, I would leave the date and block their number or socials, depending on what we used to communicate.

JaxiCats · Answer

My boyfriend was and still is an active weed user/smoker when we first started dating I didn’t smoke at all the more I was around him the more curious I became. I now smoke but not on a daily basis and it’s not something I have to do all the time or every time I’m with him. He’s not going to pressure me into it either.

Lionman95 · Answer

Either cancel the date or leave. Because smoking weed is no go for me. I´m doing that and if they come up with that at my place I ask her to leave and if she´s not willing to do I threat that I will call the police.

Topaz1979 · Answer

leave my date and go find a non smoker guy!.

tzdc21 · Answer

I would tell her no and I would break it off with her. I'm a VERY anti-smoke person, and I hold that same standard to the person that I am dating.

xJeremyx · Answer

Politely refuse, and bail after the date. No smoking on my watch. I'm sensitive to smoke. Like it makes my nostrils itch.

ZS007 · Answer

weed is illegal in my country. I wouldn't wanna date someone that smokes in general 🤣 more than that I wouldn't wanna date someone who gets weed illegally.

Anonymous · Answer

Immediately break up with her because she will achieve absolutely nothing of value in life. She will constantly smoke nonstop and complain that her life is so unfair because she has to work to pay for her weed. She would be too much of a liability.

Fuentes · Answer

Not gonna happen but she can smoke this dick tho lol

Rania05 · Answer

Politely reject and then block his number when I go back after stating my negative impression of them without being mocking.

musicbrain5 · Answer

Deal breaker! I would tell him we aren’t a good match, and then find someone who doesn’t smoke.

Apple1996 · Answer

I would tell them no but they are free to smoke around me cuz I don't mind

Username28 · Answer

If I wanted to smoke weed at that moment I would smoke. If I did not want to smoke weed at that moment I would decline.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

I might try it knce, had many opportunities to but never had. Otherwise I'd leave her to it, as long as an infrequent thing. If was a regular thing it probably wouldn't work out

UnknownPuppet · Answer

If you don't want to smoke then your partner should respect that. If you feel like you are being pushed to do it then run away..

Fireguy17 · Answer

I would pass, with my job I am subject to random drug tests and don't want to lose my license.  It's just not worth it. I'll have a few beers instead.

AddylynnNightingale · Answer

That's where the date ends. I don't like the smell. Dating someone would just have me smell of it too eventually. No. So long.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I dont want to date someone who smokes ANYTHING, especially weed. I’d break things off

EmmaMary · Answer

It would quite simply be  Goodbye .

MementoMori_ · Answer

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Moose304 · Answer

The date will come to an end and there will NEVER be another one.

Chaser3232 · Answer

These shoes are made for walking, that’s just what they’ll do. Of course I’ll be in them!

Berethor · Answer

I would tell her that I don't smoke, and girls that smoke tend to be hos, I don't like hos.

fonduegirl · Answer

Leave. If they've money for weed, they've money for cheque. Bye. I don't need to smoke to be liked.

RomanticRealist · Answer

I’d just tell them I don’t smoke, so I’ll have to pass. Simple.

Pleaznhim4me · Answer

I’d be like. No go bro. But you can do it outside? Cool?

BCA6010 · Answer

Our relationship is dead on the spot if I find out my girlfriend is actively smoking weed.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

I guess I would be more puzzled than anything else… 🤔

magiusX26 · Answer

"bye felicia". one that would mean she lied (in a major way) right off the bat

normalice · Answer

Tell her I prefer edibles but enjoy the smell so she should feel free to smoke around me.

SiberFox · Answer

I smoke weed, I've been rejected for it, and I accept that. I don't push it on anyone and I try to do it only when it's a good time.

Quidthonian · Answer

Dump her immedately, cut off all contact with her. Literally kick her out of my life.

AndrésC64 · Answer

I don't smoke cigarettes or weed, but I do vape weed. I wouldn't have a problem with a little smoking of weed however. I'd be more open to that than I would cigarettes.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

I'd tell him no way because my mom told me smoking is bad for your lungs

PinkRose24 · Answer

I don't date guys that do drugs. I don't find druggies attractive.

HaveNoName · Answer

That is the very moment she would NOT be my date any longer or forever.

BJP21 · Answer

If she's doing it to get lit... NO! If she's doing it to be social and is a 420 advocate... Pass the Dutchy to the left.

OddBeMe · Answer

No one should be forced and smoking has a lot of dire issues on non smokers. As weed lover, I make sure to keep the smell and second had smoke away from my non-imbibing wife.

exitseven · Answer

Years ago I probably would break up with her.. Today I might try it.

YollyM · Answer

I wouldn't smoke and I also wouldn't be offended because it wouldn't be forced on me.

AsaKyo · Answer

I wouldn't go out with him anymore  I hate stoners and druggies in general

shortster · Answer

"Well it was nice getting to know you; but I don't think it is going to work out. Good bye."

Massageman · Answer

I'd agree with MrOracle and call it quits before it starts.

Panzer21 · Answer

Im not a non smoker, but if you dont want to say no.

pass_the_celery98 · Answer

If she did that I know she’s a bad influence. It wouldn’t work.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

I’d go smoke the holy herb. I never smoked it before.

collie22 · Answer

i've done that its not something i want to get into so i'd probably say no thanks

SolitarySolace · Answer

I’d do it. I’ve don’t it before. But I wouldn’t make it a habit of doing it

maximumpower · Answer

Kick her lazy, worthless, dope-smoking ass to the curb.

Brandi555 · Answer

I would never ask a date to smoke unless I knew he was down.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I'd explain that I'm in the military and can't. They can do it though and I'm unbothered by it.

art84 · Answer

Would leave cause I hate the smell of smoke.

Hardworkingguy · Answer

I'd tell her to go ahead I'd she wants but I wouldn't do it.

Nazgol · Answer

I'd refuse and excuse myself to another area away from the person because I don't smoke

abitcurious2022 · Answer

I'll tell them I don't smoke. I've been with someone before who smoked weed.

RandomGuy1032 · Answer

Abandon ship. Weed is low class and always will be

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