Non smokers what would you do if your date wants you to smoke weed together?

[Anonymous]

[Finchie40]

Politely decline them and say no thank you and explain to them why , I have smoked weed before and my experiences with weed isn’t the greatest so I tend to not smoke it when I am on a date with a girl , considering I have done it before on dates and it ruined my chances 2 times with girls that I just say no to it , and not take the chance of ruining the date lol some weed makes me paranoid and makes me think weird shit to the point I become nervous and I start analyzing shit in my head and she starts looking at me like I am some fucking psycho to the point it doesn’t become fun anymore , The Weed today is just something I can’t really handle like others can , I call it wheelchair shit , cuz some of it makes me feel like I am in a coma , and can barely move out of my chair, so to me that isn’t fun , so the fact that it ruined my chances with 2 hot girls that were all over me before I smoked weed I just say No to it now and realize it isn’t worth it. If she wants to smoke go for it , some people can handle it , I have nothing against weed it’s just not really my thing , I do smoke on occasion with friends but pretty much right before I am going to bed , it does help me sleep good or if I am dealing with muscle pain it helps with that as well, So again I have really nothing against it other than ruining my chances of getting laid lol

[Adam1978]

Reject it and head home, no future dates with her.

[dustybiker]

I use the plant for migraines, myself, countless times. It’s help catch and stop more than one in the early stages without side effects (unlike prescribed poison).

Have used it (regulated) to effectively control cancer and seizures in pets. I have never smoked it though.

I’d ask them to hold off until I’m gone. Maybe suggest edibles for when I’d be around. I wouldn’t tell them how to live their life though.

[SeriouslyFunny00]

Holy smokes! I will RUN. 🤧🏃🏻‍♀️

[Still-alive]

i see what you did there

[MrOracle]

I'd take her home so she can live her life the way she wants to - it just won't be in mine.

[HaveNoName]

Ouuchhhhhh !!! Right below rhe belt... Nice play !!! I like it.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Guess he's smoking alone.
I don't date smokers. No offense if you're into that, but I'm not. I'd politely ask him not to do that around me.

And relationship wise? Yeah... I don't see it lasting at all.

[molonski2]

I don't just accept the likes of " weed " as harmless and okey , there is absolutely no way Id be smoking anything , yet alone weed , ever gain , its really harmful , its an obvious deal breaker , association is everything in life , these kind of associations are simply not going to benefit a fit individual.

No thanks.

Nor should the thought be harbored that this is somehow a harmless practice , weed and hash are extremely dangerous , and putting smoke into your lungs is never a good thing.

[NathanDavis]

no thanks...

I just can't stand smoke like that.. it stinks

that's my only problem with it... I can be very peculiar with smell, aromas and scents... and smokers do stink

literally, every single breath I would take in when I'd be with you... it would be an assault to my senses, I can literally taste the ashes in my mouth as well lmao

so no thanks... lol

[petitedollbabee]

Kindly decline, but tell them they’re welcome to smoke it alone as I’m not against that. I just don’t partake. If they continue insisting that I do it with them and won’t stop, I would leave the date and block their number or socials, depending on what we used to communicate.

[JaxiCats]

My boyfriend was and still is an active weed user/smoker when we first started dating I didn’t smoke at all the more I was around him the more curious I became. I now smoke but not on a daily basis and it’s not something I have to do all the time or every time I’m with him. He’s not going to pressure me into it either.

[Lionman95]

Either cancel the date or leave. Because smoking weed is no go for me. I´m doing that and if they come up with that at my place I ask her to leave and if she´s not willing to do I threat that I will call the police.

[tzdc21]

I would tell her no and I would break it off with her. I'm a VERY anti-smoke person, and I hold that same standard to the person that I am dating.

[Topaz1979]

leave my date and go find a non smoker guy!.

[xJeremyx]

Politely refuse, and bail after the date. No smoking on my watch. I'm sensitive to smoke. Like it makes my nostrils itch.

[ZS007]

weed is illegal in my country. I wouldn't wanna date someone that smokes in general 🤣 more than that I wouldn't wanna date someone who gets weed illegally.

[Anonymous]

Immediately break up with her because she will achieve absolutely nothing of value in life. She will constantly smoke nonstop and complain that her life is so unfair because she has to work to pay for her weed. She would be too much of a liability.

[Fuentes]

Not gonna happen but she can smoke this dick tho lol

[Sixgunsound]

One of the best strategies for getting people to act more appropriately is redirection😎

[Fuentes]

@Sixgunsound that's the best way hahahhaha

[Rania05]

Politely reject and then block his number when I go back after stating my negative impression of them without being mocking.

[Agagagagaga]

Christ. All they did is go, “Hey you wanna hit this?” while they pass you a joint.

I’m gonna block you!

Christ, all you have to do is say, “Nah I’m good.” 🤷‍♂️

[Rania05]

And do they I care? I did the basic politeness and people usually feel shame or anger when told such a things face-to-face but when it's a message they calm down and don't want to face the culprit.
I have never met anyone who did otherwise but if I did, I'm going to tell my family, there isn't a crazy dude who'll risk a jail sentence for a dark history that's past and done, in my life.

[musicbrain5]

Deal breaker! I would tell him we aren’t a good match, and then find someone who doesn’t smoke.

[Apple1996]

I would tell them no but they are free to smoke around me cuz I don't mind

[Username28]

If I wanted to smoke weed at that moment I would smoke. If I did not want to smoke weed at that moment I would decline.

[Drumlin2001]

I might try it knce, had many opportunities to but never had. Otherwise I'd leave her to it, as long as an infrequent thing. If was a regular thing it probably wouldn't work out

[UnknownPuppet]

If you don't want to smoke then your partner should respect that. If you feel like you are being pushed to do it then run away..

[Fireguy17]

I would pass, with my job I am subject to random drug tests and don't want to lose my license.
It's just not worth it.
I'll have a few beers instead.