Is this fishy or it’s not a big deal?

[Anonymous]

Is it fishy if you notice a couple dating (possibly new) but she post lots of pics of him and them together on her page/ stories. You can just tell she really likes him.. but he hasn’t posted one pic of her on his page. Just a couple on his story

but on a Instagram story you can block certain people from seeing it..

he’s on his page all the time but he post his art. But not every photo is art but maybe he wants to keep it mainly art.

she’s also really beautiful. A model.. why wouldn’t he?

[Caliguy88]

I hate putting relationships on social media until we’ve dated for like half a year. I just hate explaining who she is to everyone that asks, then if you breakup quick have to explain that. Has nothing to do with her as a person or her looks.

[FilmGuy93]

Maybe he’s just an extremely private person like me, and just doesn’t want to broadcast his personal life online.

[Asker]

Lol he’s not a private person

[FilmGuy93]

Maybe he is when it comes to things online or just romantic stuff in general? Privacy are my best guess, honestly. If that’s not the answer than I don’t know what else it could be

[Asker]

Hiding her from other girls

[FilmGuy93]

Oh… I mean… maybe? If he was hiding her, he probably wouldn’t want her posting anything of him either though.

[Asker]

But how will anyone know her if he don’t post her on his page. Posting on a story don’t count bc only her and Jesus could see it

[FilmGuy93]

If he was hiding, why would he want to take that risk at all though? He’s probably not hiding anything.

[Asker]

I’m sure it may mean nothing on his end but… if she’s posting and tagging why wouldn’t he? He post different things.. mainly his art but still

If he’s posted her in his story why not post on the main page where everyone can see lol you can control who sees your story

It just makes it appear as if he’s still single.

[FilmGuy93]

It sounds like he has his social media page for a specific reason and not simply personal use. If he has a professional intent for his page, his romantic life is out of place for the rest of the content on the page.

[Asker]

I guess that makes sense

I think I’m just bitter bc he showed a little interest in me but then he started ignoring me or showing less attention.. now he has a model girlfriend..

[FilmGuy93]

I kinda figured that was what’s going on. Men like getting attention too; it’s not just women. I’m sorry that happened to you 🫤

[Asker]

Lol so why am I getting ignored if nothing happened? I don’t have his number, never dated

[FilmGuy93]

Because he’s dating someone and y’all are only acquaintances?

[Asker]

I guess, but I didn’t pay him any attention. He was the one showing interest. I thought he was just being friendly

But I think they were just starting to talk so I don’t feel too bad.. but we can’t date anyway bc we are coworkers

[Asker]

Can I ask you one more question

[FilmGuy93]

Of course, how can I help?

[Asker]

Why did he avoid me / truly to avoid looking when I dressed up nice?

[FilmGuy93]

Probably because you’re an acquaintance and he’s dating someone

[Asker]

Then why show interest if you were already talking to someone..

[FilmGuy93]

Could be boredom; just looking for something to do. If a man hasn't had the "what are we" talk with a woman, it's not like he owes her a duty of exclusivity.

[Asker]

We are co workers lol. So we can’t date and we don’t know eachother well enough

I just noticed him through his behavior tho. I didn’t pay attention to him. I just noticed that he looks at me a lot and smiles. He’s close and he looks when other guys talk to me

[FilmGuy93]

It doesn't matter if you're coworkers. He wasn't actually planning on dating you, so it's not like flirting with you is a big deal.

[Asker]

Except that it is a big deal and a guy shouldn’t do that if he has no intentions on dating you.

[FilmGuy93]

Meh... it's certainly not a very considerate thing to do, in any case.

[rdanie]

Sometimes peopel aren't trying to hide their relationship or s/o but just prefer keeping it private. He might just be more scared to be more vulnerable on social media than she is. She might be completely okay with just being on his story :)

[Asker]

Lol if you say so

Men are slick

[rdanie]

Agreed but not all of them are the same.

[Asker]

You can be a good guy and still be slick if you’re unsure

I’m sure it may mean nothing on his end but… if she’s posting and tagging why wouldn’t he? He post different things.. mainly his art but still

[jennifer_bloom]

I think he might want to protect his reputation in the event they break up one day, or maybe he does not want guys to know who he is with out of a fear they will try to steal her from him.

[Asker]

I don’t think it’s that

[In_Trance]

This is not a deal at all

[Asker]

“Okay”

[Anonymous]

instead of asking us why not ask him