@Lookingforthetruth I used to say if I wasn’t married by 25, I never would be. A women who wants to get married young thinks “He’s it, I’m stopping the search.”
A woman in her thirties has screwed everyone in town, has steamship trunks of emotional baggage over the way men who had nothing in common with me treated her, and has decided she’ll settle for me. I’m not about to spend the rest of my life with someone who thinks she settled for me; I saw how miserable my mother made my father!
Testing someone by rejecting them to see if they are mature enough to handle it is horrible. You will most likely end up with someone who is: 1. Too naive to realize whats going on which makes them an easy target to be taken advantage of. 2. So eone who is willing to be with anyo e so they ate not alone. 3. Someone who believes that any type of attention is good attention. A person who truly and honestly cares about themselves will not go with someone who rejects them.
I've seen girls post that they didn't reciprocate interest for 10 months. Then when the guy moves on to another girl, she thinks that he is a player. Don't be that girl.
A lot of these types of posts confuse the heck out of me, because I tend to be the one who plays hard to get.. I can't imagine the idea of chasing a woman.
Modern Men's self worth is in the actual gutter.🤦🏾
Don't you think that this is hypothetical and counterproductive?
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Its not about being hard to get its about being natural. If you're easy to get then be easy to get because acting is the quickest way to turn everyone off
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I think it's wrong to play. If you actually Are hard to get, it's acceptable. Don't play games.
I hated all the games girls would play. Things like plsying hard to get or trying to make me jealous. It really soured me on dating.
My favorite is women who turn me down and get mad when they see me with another woman.
@MikeInHawaii because you are suppose to be her slave/backup if she ends up in her late 30s and unmarried.
@Lookingforthetruth I used to say if I wasn’t married by 25, I never would be. A women who wants to get married young thinks “He’s it, I’m stopping the search.”
A woman in her thirties has screwed everyone in town, has steamship trunks of emotional baggage over the way men who had nothing in common with me treated her, and has decided she’ll settle for me. I’m not about to spend the rest of my life with someone who thinks she settled for me; I saw how miserable my mother made my father!
Testing someone by rejecting them to see if they are mature enough to handle it is horrible. You will most likely end up with someone who is: 1. Too naive to realize whats going on which makes them an easy target to be taken advantage of. 2. So eone who is willing to be with anyo e so they ate not alone. 3. Someone who believes that any type of attention is good attention. A person who truly and honestly cares about themselves will not go with someone who rejects them.
@jennifer_bloom I like your views and your question, no man should be nasty cause of a breakup, I've been rejected and took it like a man.
I've seen girls post that they didn't reciprocate interest for 10 months. Then when the guy moves on to another girl, she thinks that he is a player. Don't be that girl.
women logic. Not even once.
@Lookingforthetruth if we meet this type of woman, I am glad if she rejects us. she is doing us a favor.
A lot of these types of posts confuse the heck out of me, because I tend to be the one who plays hard to get.. I can't imagine the idea of chasing a woman.
Modern Men's self worth is in the actual gutter.🤦🏾
Sorry, you can play all the games you want to, and you will also lose people that just don't have the time or patience to play games.
It's called adulthood.
While i don't wish ill on anyone. I think those that play hard to get reap what the sow.
I ask this woman out twice, said ok forget it , dated married and she was pissed I didn't ask her a 3rd time? I was young and handsome
Hard to get changed 3 lives
I found out through the grapevine the one who played hard to get was into me also
Men are now told not to pursue someone who is hard to get. So it might backfire
Its a slippery slope though because a lot of women are too koi and playing hard to get implies that you are not interested
Don't you think that this is hypothetical and counterproductive?
Its not about being hard to get its about being natural. If you're easy to get then be easy to get because acting is the quickest way to turn everyone off
Hmmm, to me it just comes across as playing games and dishonesty.
We (men) get called Sexist if we don't date women that do wanted to date us (men).
What do they say when they reject you?
They don’t say anything, they just decline my invitations to hang out or decline opportunities to receive tokens of kindness from me.
Women tend to overdue this.
I freaking hate it.
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Cool.