Is it ok to call a woman gorgeous, beautiful, sexy with 😍 or ❤️ on messages if you are a married man?

[Anonymous]

Yes. It is cheating

No. It is not cheating and ok

Yes but it is not cheating

[Kaneki05]

Is it wrong to call Celebrity sexy while married? nah.
And I have the same response to this.
Unless you are trying to cheat just saying someone is attractive is just called not been blind. Because of course many attractive people still exist whether married or not.

Now if your other wants you to bottle those thoughts up and lie about other people been attractive... honestly their the one's with the problems. Because they actively want you not to be truthful, because they don't see how saying someone is attractive is much different to saying I don't want my partner no more and I want to cheat on them with you.

Also bet they would change their mind on the context, for example my friend who is a girl just got dumped by her boyfriend so I am comforting her telling her she's amazing and pretty she will find someone else in no time who will appreciate her.
And ya see, this is why it's only not okay when it's the context of I want to cheat.

If this person started to sext them or started to kiss them etc then that's when it's wrong. That's if you both of you are under typical monogamy rules.

[Asker]

I get that but what if he said hello beautiful over a message to a woman who is not his wife. No reason for him to do it he just does.

[whiskeyontherocks]

Really depends on intent if a old friend was feeling down and she had no reason to be than I’d probably throw her a complement but my intent is not to flirt so ok

[WonderBell99]

It really depends on the context. If he was flirting with her, it would not come under the boundary of cheating, but I would be suspicious and would not entertain it. If it was a celebrity, I would not care because nothing much will happen. They get thousands of those messages every day.

If I catch my husband privately messaging someone saying: “OMG you are so sexy. 😍” that would be utterly disrespectful to me.

It is absolutely okay to acknowledge that attractive people exist. You do not automatically become blind when you get into a relationship, but it is not okay to send flirty messages to someone with the intent of getting sexual with them. It COULD lead to cheating.

Im gonna go with option C. It’s not cheating, but very disrespectful to your partner. It would only become cheating if they sext.

[Rosexøxø]

I don’t think it’s okay. I think it’s sus.

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[Finchie40]

If it’s messages to the girl he is texting then No , if it’s messages to a friend talking about a girl then yes but it’s still disrespectful

[lookingeverywhere]

Most women are sexy and gorgeous. There bodies were created to please a man's eye. I am married but I will always look at a beautiful woman, "WISHING" off course. And my wife knows it. Can't ever get enough of women.

[EaterPeter]

It can be cheating in most cases. Us guys feel helpless with some women and I would be lying if I say we don't seek sexual advantages.

[Wise4myage]

C. But its not right for a married man to do doing that.

[Anonymous]

Geogeous, beautiful... maybe in the right context. Sexy? No that has clear implications.

[TroyDT2]

As long as she's your wife.

[joeldalton]

I'm married, not blind.

[BJP21]

Depends on the context.

[Iron_Man]

No way that’s not OK

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Only if you say it a certain way

[cootjuhh]

only if its a compliment. not to flirt

[jamartheg]

Yes as long as he is dating her as well

[Anonymous]

If she is your wife