Hey guys. Been dating this guy a year. Things are okay between us. His lack of listening is truly making me wonder about our future. he's a nice guy but i am really getting tired of saying the same thing over and over. Any advice on how to improve things here? Thanks
Ok talking to him or at him? If you’re talking at him yes he’s not going to listen. Hell I wouldn’t listen. I believe in general we as men don’t listen to things that aren’t important to us, or as important to us. To you yes that may be important. I hate saying it this way but have you ever noticed that a man can quote a million lines from movies years ago, or a few days old but can’t remember your fucking anniversary? Lol I know I can quote a lot of movies. In all honestly it’s not as big of a deal to us as you make it out to be to yourself. We care to a certain degree, especially when you throw a fit about it, start to cry. But for most men those things aren’t that important. Although it make take a few minutes or seconds to do as you ask he may feel it as an inconvenience because let’s say you’re disturbing his game or something. So maybe a little selfish, but if you forge to do it he will let you k ow for sure.
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Say something important to HIM. If he doesn’t retain that, dump him. Chances are you don’t value the same things. So when you speak he’s not detecting the key words in your speech. Almost certainly vice versa. You can invest the time and energy into training him, but ultimately that’s just manipulation. You wouldn’t dare, right? Ell oh ell!
If he DOES retain it, and you believe he might be “the one”, invest in couples’ therapy to improve communication.
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I can give some help to you. But do you have some examples of him not listening. Is it he same subject or when you have a certain emotion?
He doesn’t listen cause he doesn’t care
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