Does talking to someone else while you’re not yet in a relationship count as “cheating”? (Page 3)

[Anonymous]

You should just delete the old chats from your phone and photos of your ex if you have any. Being in a current relationship and having past photos or old texts laying around probly made your boyfriend feel a bit out of place.

To answer your question, no its clearly not cheating if that's what he stated then he is wrong. Calling it cheating is not valid.

[crossdressingrihno]

Your not in the wrong. You were both talking to your exes and that time neither of you were really together so their wasn’t really much there. Plus you said you and your ex were just friends.

[mandyfire98]

Until you're exclusive it's not cheating

[savagewolf22]

Mandy I wanna fuck you. 😊

[mandyfire98]

Wow, haha that was out of the blue.

[Asker]

Yes, very straight forward answer. Thanks for your input!

[savagewolf22]

@mandyfire98

Can I? Fucking you Is like my dream comes true moment. 😊

[FunkyMonkee]

No, cheating means you're secretly in love with someone else besides the person you've been with steady for a while or, you're fucking this other person.

[Twalli]

I don't think it was a really shitty thing to do since he knew about it happeing before you were official and you were willing to show him, which most people aren't willing to do. It's also not cheating.

[AddylynnNightingale]

Only if it's to flirt.

[Asker]

Oh yeah flirting is a no no, and that’s definitely crossing the line

[Belgie]

Only if you're a possessive dumbfuck destined to die alone.

[Mangospacho]

There is no way this could possibly be considered cheating. It sounds like he has probably been cheated on in the past. That’s the only thing I could think of for him having that reaction.

[TroyDT2]

Nope. No promise, no cheating.

[Asker]

Thank you…

[Amarah0]

I don't think so if you're not official it shouldn't matter

[Anonymous]

Wait, hold up. . . how can you be CHEATING if you're not even in a relationship? Like, what would you even be cheating on? That makes no sense at all!

[dtweed1996]

Not really it only counts as cheating if one was doing so while in a relationship

[ZenJen444]

Why are we talking about the past?

[Asker]

Yeah he brought it up, this was 2 years ago so idk…

[ZenJen444]

Looks like he's looking for an excuse to cover up whatever dirt he's doing in the background

[Asker]

I think he might’ve been projecting tbh

[Legion696969]

No it, s not cheating and it, s nothing to do with him. It would be best to try not to flirt though.

[TallAnon]

He can be hurt and wrong at the same time. No, it's not cheating. Yes, being hurt makes sense.

[Zolly99999]

No.. people are allowed to talk to each other.

[Anonymous]

Talking is never cheating.

[Asker]

I agree, especially if it’s only friendly talk

[Part2603]

No. Negative.

[Asker]

Fair point, thanks for sharing!

[modeve]

Absolutely NOT.

[Emilyis]

NO! LOL, that's just flat STUPID!