Why is he acting distant?

[Anonymous]

Why do men act distant all of a sudden? I know people say it’s because of a another women or they lost interest? Yet this guy has been chasing me for months even when I ignore him he blows up my phone. Wants to talk to me all the time. He even admitted that he likes when a girl sweats him, he explained I’m not like that which he liked. He said that I was a “challlenge and he likes that”. After a whole day of not speaking to me he texts me “are you busy” I respond saying “no” then he never texted back? Which is weird yet he watched my story after the fact? He was just talking my head off a couple days ago telling me all this stuff and now he’s acting distant? Why do men do this?

[kylee2437]

He’s telling in himself without saying it. He likes when women chase him , but that’s about it. He’s inconsistent because the more inconsistent he is on some days and then he changes to being more consistent, the more likely you are to chase Jim.

[kylee2437]

Him***

[Asker]

Which is crazy cause he knows I don’t chase him. I did ignore him for a whole week due to something I which he blew up my phone throughout the process.

One time his phone died and he never called back until the next day and said …

Him- “I thought you were going to call me back”

Me- well your phone hung up

Him- “my phone died, but I didn’t call you back cause I wanted to see if you liked me enough to call me back”

Wtf?

[kylee2437]

@asker you two are playing games with each other. Ignoring someone to prove a point is toxic and he seems like someone that only likes women that chase him. This isn’t going to go anywhere

[Asker]

It was for a good reason.

Why did he text me today asking if I was busy then when I respond he didn’t say anything but has been on social media looking at my stories?

He’s never done this

[kylee2437]

Because both of you are playing games with each other

[kylee2437]

When you are bothered by someone’s actions, you communicate you do not ignore

[Asker]

So he’s not interested?

[kylee2437]

No. He is interested in the chase and keep women wrapped around his finger meanwhile he provides no substance of a relationship

[Asker]

Wow… it really seems like he likes me though we talk on the phone for hoursssssssssss

This first time he asked me on date he canceled a hour before the date that’s why I stoped talking to him. In which he begged me to speak to him. He asked me out again and I canceled because we had a disagreement before the date so I don't know? He was just talking my head off two days ago so I don't know how someone can switch that fast?

[Anonymous]

Have you made any effort to show that he isn't wasting his time? No guy is going to chase you forever. Many don't like games and won't chase you at all.

[Anonymous]

I act distant when she's hurt me mentally and emotionally. I distance myself to keep from getting hurt by her

[Danny_dan92]

Awwh your simp grew some self worth and a brain

[Asker]

Then why did he reach out to me today saying “hello” ?

[Danny_dan92]

Sad day maybe?

[Asker]

Why text me though?

[Danny_dan92]

Like I said, he probably had a sad day. Felt lonely

[Asker]

So he doesn’t like me?

[Danny_dan92]

Try asking him