I actually fell in love with someone over the course of less than two weeks, and once I confessed we actually went on for 3 years as a relationship (on and off, as there were a few rough periods), but overall we’re still on good terms. We only stopped cause we’re growing in different directions, some quite literally as they’re moving to California soon.
Of course, it’s more founded as the weeks pass more and more, but a short spark can create a flame that lasts for a long time. All you need is a good romance as the fuel.10 Reply
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7.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Yes he can.
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+1 yMaybe a strong interest but if he says he loves you that is CAP. That is what we call love bombing which means he's insecure and trying to secure something with you before someone else does even if what he is saying isn't true.
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+1 yTwo weeks is not enough time to really get to know someone let alone fall deeply in love in my opinion. You might have a crush and be extremely attracted but not love. That's simply to fast, you're still strangers to each other.
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+1 yThere is absolutely no way genuine love can build up in that time frame. For crying out loud, you can't begin to know everything about anyone that quick. Maybe that is why marriages last months, not years, because the illusion of what they are only lasts as long until everything comes to see them, and they see what they really are besides good sex, but most often, not even that.

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@MCheetah I'm pretty sure those granny panties were not mine. So, you base love on clothing, or lack of it? 🤣🤷♂️
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+1 yYou can become INFATUATED in two weeks. These are the early stages of love. Which is natural.
Saying "I love you" appears committal to a lot of people, and I doubt a person has developed that aspect. There are 3 different aspects of love, according to the psychologist, Robert Sternberg: intimacy, passion and commitment.
Infatuation is strong in passion, and growing in commitment and intimacy. New love usually passes through this stage, and it's wonderful.
If you have a partner and want to say something besides "I love you" too early, maybe say "I adore you", or "I cherish you". They mean the same thing, with different connotation attached. My husband still says he adores me and I adore it ☺️ (He says I love you too, though).10 Reply 965 opinions shared on Dating topic. I was 24 when I met a woman at a dance. We hit it off wonderfully. We knew in less than a day that we would have a strong bond forever. Soon after we were engaged. Our wedding was less than 2 months after meeting and we remained happy together till her death decades later from cancer.
20 ReplyThey can; it is most definitely possible. The real issue, however, is discerning what is genuine love from crush/infatuation/lust/etc. and acting accordingly. The practical application is that while it may be love, don't necessarily dump that love on the woman if she hasn't yet reciprocated.
00 ReplyLove don't wait for weeks or years to happen it just a moment that you have that feelings , yes by each passing day it would go strong and stronger
10 Reply19.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. That’s way too early 14 days. He can like her but not fall in love that fast That’s just way to early. Although My best friends wife said it was love at first sight when they first met.
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Where have you been lately?
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Seems like no one is beyond being overextended. Hope you work it out.
+1 yI could "develop feelings" in 2 days. The thing is, true "love" is another thing and it probably takes years...
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+1 yLove is progressional and a growing feeling, it doesn't happen overnight or even in 2 short weeks. If it happened in 2 weeks, I wouldn't say it is a fake feeling, but such a rushed feeling will fade away just as fast as it came.
00 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. If it's been two weeks in person sure, not if its been online.
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+1 ySeriously? Of course not. In 4 weeks they couldn't have possibly see one of your flaw. Loving someone means accepting them alltogether, their insecurities, traumas, flaws, perks, everything. In 2 weeks, there's absolutely no way the could have met the real you
00 Reply8.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. I believe he may think he loves her after two weeks.
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+1 yI’m both in raised in Utah. People elope after knowing each other for less than a week. It is possible. Not smart but possible.
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+1 yLove doesn't need period but the heart and the heart knows what it wants so it's possible
10 ReplyDeveloping feelings happen sudden and fast so I wouldn't be surprised if this happens to anyone unless they're asexual like me
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+1 yHe can love the idea of her that she is presenting (if she is descriptive enough), but he can't verify that she is who she says she is that fast (and if he somehow can, tell me how).
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+1 yTwo weeks is a bit too soon to love someone. Personally I only love someone when I truly know them and feel like I can be myself around them.
00 Reply972 opinions shared on Dating topic. I doubt. Maybe it's some illusion but I think it's not even infatuation
00 ReplyDon't believe anyone who says they love you within the first few months of dating, unless you've known each other for much longer.
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+1 yI don't think sure that is way too early to comment something as that. I still barely knows her personally to mention that I love her.
00 Reply Yes, it's possible because I experience it and now I am engaged to my lady right now.
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+1 yYou can be infatuated with someone after only two weeks but you need to give it time to see if it becomes love or if it just fades away.
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+1 yYeah. As cliche as it is sometimes I just feel like you know that someone is the one.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yA man can certainly begin to love a woman in two weeks. It does not take a man as long as a woman to develop feelings for her. But love grows deeper over time.
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+1 yNo, but he can lust for her. Don't fall into the "addicted to lust" trap.
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+1 yPeople back in the day didn’t date very long
00 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. I don't know about falling in love, but there can be intense attraction
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+1 yNo to all of it. He's a player, or are you a whore? Are you dating out of your league perhaps?
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+1 yHe is having a crush, it's not love.. It can be in the future though.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yI couldn't and I'm suspect of ANYONE who says they could whether they be a man or a woman.
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 yI watch too much porn, My brains thinks about sex whenever I see or talk with a girl so I don't know what love is anymore
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Get ahold of yourself man! Solution? Stop watching porn.
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@Hermitess No they are not. But it is getting this day and age of sleeping around and living together outside of marriage, that it has seemed that love is running cold. Maybe one has to be raised in love to feel it anymore.
Opinion Owner+1 y@Daniela1982 Is not easy just to stop watching, been watching porn since 12, its gonna take time, porn addiction is the worst drug thats ever been created
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You will never get anyplace without taking the first step.
Anonymous(18-24)+1 yNo, that's nothing but a crush. Love takes more time.
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+1 yI don't think so, I never could lol
00 Reply 881 opinions shared on Dating topic. not in love in love but a crush for sure
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+1 yIt can happen much faster. When you know you know.
00 Reply896 opinions shared on Dating topic. Less. Far less if the communication is honest.
00 ReplyThat would be lust and infatuation.
10 Replylove at first look comes to mind so yes!
00 Reply547 opinions shared on Dating topic. IRL or only online?
00 Reply794 opinions shared on Dating topic. It's rare but not impossible.
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+1 yLove is dead these days.
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@Sasha0426 I will talk slowly, love is dead THESE DAYS.
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@Sasha0426 it's okay, I didn't have to be rude. But it was fun to say. lol
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@Sasha0426 we only dated for 4 months from the time I first met her. She was 17 and still in high school and I was 18 and working in the small town in wester Kansas. We got married in front of a judge in DODGE CITY KANSAS. No, she was not pregnant before we married. That was 45 years ago. 1977.
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No it's not. It just has to be alive to the right person. And all you need is one.
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You mean love or your love rod?
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@Daniela1982. EVERY marriage starts with I love you and ends with I hate you. Love is like a Gas bubble. It will pass.
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For some that is true, but it still is alive. However, if all you have ever known is turmoil and heartache, I can see your point.
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@Daniela1982 BABY, the longer people live alone the harder it is for someone to live with them. People get in a routine and set in their ways. After a while, JESUS couldn't live with these people. I know men that have never been married and no one would be able to live with them. It gets to a point that it's impossible to make them happy.
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Are you to that point yet?
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yMen can’t fall in love period.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yYeah lonely men do
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01 Reply3.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. I could not
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+1 yPossible.
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