Girls, when you dress up super nice for a date are you still dressing for yourself or are you also thinking of what the guy will like too?

Question

Most girls say 'i like to dress for myself' but does this also apply to when you go out on a date? Are you dating for you AND the guy on dates? or still just you?

meetkitty123 · Accepted Answer

I went with option D

Only because I would answer this way

I dress for MYSELF and take into CONSIDERATION what the guy might find stunning on me.

(Not what he would WANT me to wear)...

I MAY once I know the man, wear something I know he likes like a v neck t with a logo of his fav sports team or fish net stockings if je is into such things...

Again not because its what he expects me to wear something particular but because

I WANT TO WEAR IT.

CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

I always dress for myself, even when I'm going on a date. Now, when I had a boyfriend, there were certain things he especially liked when I wore them, so I would often take into consideration what he liked. But when dating, no I don’t particularly give a rats anus what he would like. I want to feel comfortable, and look good for mySELF, if he likes it too, well I guess that’s a bonus.

petitedollbabee · Answer

I dress mostly for myself, but also if he doesn’t like what I’m wearing, then we’re not a good match. I don’t dress up all girly and pretty everyday. Im more of a sweatpants and t-shirt girl, not a sparkly dress with heels girl.

My boyfriend fake gags at me whenever I dress up all fancy and pretty for special events 😂 because he loves how I dress on a normal day.

StephiC · Answer

I mainly dress for myself on dates. Some days that captures the male gaze and others the female gaze.

Depending on my mood I will power dress on a date but thats for power and to have a personal giggle at how easy it is to short circuit men.

The closest thing I do to dressing for a man is if I'm out with his friends or family and I know how much it means to his ego to be see with a well dressed woman.

lalaloveee · Answer

I don't know why but who answer like that "I ONLY DRESS MY MYSELF💅" will dye their hair the color their man likes in the later stages of the relationship aaaahahahahhahahahahahha.

Thank goodness I don't have a Feminist answer. Caring about my man's tastes is a kind of love language for me. That's why I prefer clothes that I like and I'm sure he will like too.

mandyfire98 · Answer

I'm wearing clothes I bought so it's for myself when I picked them out. I do pick out things in my closet that my date might think looks cute or sexy. Like if I decide to show cleavage. So it's a bit of both really.

valentina4eva · Answer

option B, i want to feel comfortable & cute in whatever i’m wearing but i also want to look good for him too!!😅😅

menina · Answer

I've never been on a date. If I was going to one, I would dress for myself. If I feel good about myself, then the chances of the date going well are higher.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I take satisfaction knowing my husband is pleased with what I decide to wear for our dates.

Ninania · Answer

I dress for myself. If he doesn't like me as I am, we're not right for each other.

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