Is there something wrong with me or does he not just love me as much?

[Anonymous]

The disagreements that me and my boyfriend have had have mostly been because he never asked to see me more and I questioned his love for me. Now he’s on a vacation so I haven’t seen him in a little more than a week and I have to wait until Friday to see him again. All I think about is him all day and how I want him to be here with me so that we could spend our first night alone and my heart gets heavy because I don’t think that he misses me too and I feel like it’s one sided. He’s on a vacation and he seems very happy he was barely texting me and paying attention to me at all he even ended our video call early to watch a show with his family he was only giving me a few texts a day until I told him that I felt bad and alone. I wonder if something’s wrong with me and why do I feel so sad and alone? It feels so one sided at times why am I the only one that gets sad being apart I feel like this is so unfair I hate it.

[Anonymous]

You’re too much drama. Ok first of all he’s w his family so at least just let him enjoy his time. This is why men don’t like going places w family, or w friends even if she says it’s ok. Even though I don’t think we need permission. But women make men feel guilty for going even though they say no I’m ok. I’ll just stay home. Let him be. One of the problems is you’re overthinking it the way most women do. You’re making nothing I to something. Men don’t always have to have you on their mind 24/7 to know they love you. They live in reality knowing that even though I have a wife or girlfriend life still goes on. That I need to continue to keep doing the things I did in life such as work, etc, etc. You’re assuming that because you feel that way he should feel that way as well when you’re thinking comes from that of a female. A lot of women need to stop thinking that well if I feel this way he needs to feel the same. Doesn’t work that way.

[Jamie05rhs]

I can't comment on your relationship as a whole because I don't know you and I don't know him.
However, when people are on vacation, it is 100% normal for them to "be on vacation." Meaning just enjoying the moment and being disconnected from the outside world. That's literally the whole point of a vacation.

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Katyalov]

He's on vacation, he’s gonna enjoy his vacation. Guys can't focus on too much at once like girls can. There's nothing wrong with you, I think you need to focus on yourself more, get busy more, hang out with your girlfriends more, love yourself, take care of yourself first. Sounds like you are trying to get your boyfriend to fill empty voids within yourself.

[Asker]

I have a full time job and animals to take care of. I do have one friend but we don’t really hang out she’s also in medical school

[Asker]

Even during my job im still thinking about him

[Guy13]

You’re too much.