Is there something wrong with me, am I messed up?

[Anonymous]

It's not that I'm not ambitious, I am competitive too, won many times and have big goals but something MORE important is bothering me. LOVE. Wanting and missing someone terribly I wanted to spend my life with.

I've seen that almost everyone is focused on their goals, friends and job 24/7 that they never truly fall in love.

While I'm okay with loving and doting on a person for hours everyday, many people need variety, continuous hustle/excitement in life and they tend to get bored of one person.
I just want a peaceful life deep down where i travel, make art, dine in and have fun with my true love.

• Other people I've seen them chasing goal after goal even if they're already on top of everyone!
• Does this means I'm abnormal, over emotional and need some help?

[devilish-cutie]

you are normal, everyone is different, most just just hide their differences not to be judged by others so they fake normality. anyways define normality. there are plenty of people that want to find love and be loyal, and its their priority
you may just be surrounded by more people that are not more similar to you
dont believe everything you see/hear, its not how it seems, you gotta be true to ysf, that is the only way for you to be happy

[Asker]

By normal I meant, just working and focusing on friends but only giving your partner 1 hour everyday. I'm the type who prefers at least 4-5 hours with my life partner. Rest for the work, hobbies and friends.

[devilish-cutie]

For each to its own, i myself nred more attention, some need less, all is normal as long as your partner matvhes you and ots not overbearing. Life happens you work study, do your hobbies, sometimes you may spend the whole day w him sometimes one day you kust text a little, its imppssible to expect cpnstantly to be 4-5h every day glued, usually thats hoonymoon phase but even then u can't pit your lkfe on hold n just be w your partner. If you live together than youd automatically spend a lot of time together but not all will be quality time

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't think there's anything wrong with you.