Can your boyfriend/girlfriend or even husband/wife slowly become unattractive to you?

[Anonymous]

And I don’t mean physically but I mean the more they disappoint and hurt you. The more they continue to do the same things that you guys have already established as being harmful to you both and the foundation of the relationship, you just slowly start to look and see them differently and before you know it you don’t find their soul, mind, heart or even them physically attractive anymore as though you’re worn out and tired of the same old cycle.

[HighValue]

Yes. If someone behaves badly it DOES affect how physically attractive I find them.

It works the opposite too. As long as someone was somewhat attractive to me to begin with (5 or more) then their actions DO increase how physically attractive I find her over time. I have had that happen before.

[Andres77]

Two exwives did exactly that. Made it much easier for me to decide to leave them.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it can and does happen

[misogynistic_pig]

Yes, the years do not forgive anyone.