Is it normal for a guy to keep tabs on you if he doesn't want to be with you?

[Anonymous]

I was used for sex basically then he ghosted me. We work at the same place and before me and him met he sort of observed me and knew what car was mine and such. After he didn't respond to my message I got a clue really quick and just unfriended him but I still can't fight the feeling I'm being watched because I see him under Al my stories and feel like I'm being watched at work sometimes even though I know I'm partly being just paranoid I can't shake the feeling. If they don't want you why do they watch you so closely?

[Summeroflove]

Very creepy. Maybe you need better standards

[Splithead]

Pretty normal. I've been ghosted by women who still view my stories. Half of the sex a man gets are from old flames as well. Also even i find it hard to not be curious about women I've slept with in the past, which is why i block them.

If you've slept together there are memories, and memories breed curiosity. I've got girls i olny matched with on tinder still on my instsgrsm from years ago. Girls i just met and flirted with one night snd never saw again.

I dont think its weird. But you can totally block him.

[Anonymous]

I don’t think I’d say he’s watching you closely and keeping tabs on you, that’s just downright creepy and I’m sure you don’t want to shine that light on him based off your vibes and feelings. It’s very normal to still watch people’s social media stories even if you don’t talk to them or fell out. I know I don’t talk to over half my friends list and still watch their things and like their pics. He also has no issue against you and the only mishap is his disinterest so what’s weird about him viewing your things?