How do you expect a guy to act on a double date?

[BarryLiverstone]

Last month a friend of mine met a girl while we were out playing pool and now they want me to come with them on a date this weekend because she’s bringing her roommate. Seems like the ladies would talk and have expectations prior to the date. What are rules or any advice you can give me for the date?

[NathanDavis]

balance... and measured

don't steal the spotlight and don't be a downer, lol

other than that, just be genuine

not sure on the circumstances you've been set up... but my friend, he would set me up for double dates because he needed a double date with a couple of girls she liked, and they wanted only a double date first, so he would bring me.. lmfao

and that's what he said every single time, don't steal the spot light, tone it down... and don't ruin shit either

so yes, balance

[RavVid]

It is sort of awkward because you don't know if will feel any attraction and it will be expected you are an attentive escort.

I think it is is best if you are gentlemanly and talk to her and get to know her. Plus don't stick your tongue in unless she says you can!

Good luck. Your basic game plan is to just get out alive without having caused offence to anyone.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ty. Guess she’s seen me and she is excited so I’ll just be myself

[RavVid]

That's the ticket I think.

[bubblegunnn]

Dont expect for romance, should see how she look and her personality.. are u attracted to her, u feel comfy around her, if so then u kinda want a relationship w her not ons or friends with benefits, then u could see how she reacts on u and know what her intention to u, if u both want thr same thing (relationship) then u could make it work..
Just be nice to her

[BarryLiverstone]

I’ll try to remember how to be nice, Ty :)

[Emiliamazing]

Clearly, you made a nice impression on this lady. So I would start with acting in a similar manner as you did, when you were playing pool with your friend. Don't overdo the romance, but try and mimic how you were behaving when she met you and your friend.

[RavVid]

That is good advice - the first time worked!

[Guy13]

Don’t try to entertain both girls. Stay away from his and direct your attention to her. Talk to him and the girl roommate.

[OlderAndWiser]

Is this a first date for your friend and the girl?

[BarryLiverstone]

My friend and the girl were already out once alone. This is their 2nd date and I’ve never met to roommate.

[OlderAndWiser]

If it was their first date, I would think your friend's girl was a bit nervous and wanted a group activity to be safe. However, since that doesn't apply, I guess the roommate is lonely and thy are trying to play matchmaker. Have you seen her or a picture of her?

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. Guess I’ll see her this weekend.

[OlderAndWiser]

Good luck, brother! I remember a blind date that was fairly horrible from beginning to end. That was in 1972!

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank you sir. I plan to use my manners.

[OlderAndWiser]

Of course! Even if you never want to see her again, that is no excuse to be less than a gentleman. I apprecate the fact that chivalry is NOT dead.

[Brandi555]

Be yourself and don’t try to impress her. Be nice but not too nice. And be confident but not arrogant. And make sure your clean. Don’t be showing up all smelly. Lmfao

[BarryLiverstone]

I shower. Will be clean and not stinky like you lol

[Brandi555]

Wait. Excuse me? 😒

[BarryLiverstone]

Huh?

[Brandi555]

You said I was stinky.

[bulldoglover3]

Be nice (don't take it farther if she don't want to) and pay for the food

[BarryLiverstone]

For sure ill pay, ty

[Phoenix98]

Just focus your attention on entertaining the girl your meeting and talking with your buddy and let him focus on entertaining the girl he’s going with.

other then that just be yourself.

[spartan55]

The ol roommate setup... can't hurt to go out and have some fun. Go in with low expectations and you may be pleasantly surprised.

[linka_pat307]

Pretend like you don't know anything and don't interrupt them

I guess your friend is trying to set you up with his gfs friend... Probably

[alcorriher]

don’t try to hard. be yourself & just act how you would if it was a one on one date 😉

[Delphier232]

What is your expectation of a girl's behavior on a double date? @BarryLiverstone

[BarryLiverstone]

I expect her to have fun and relax. Enjoy the date and be present, feel happy, and be respectful of everyone

[Delphier232]

Then there you have it. That's how girls expect guys to act on double dates lol.

[annabananna]

Decent manners is a good start lol.

[BarryLiverstone]

If I didn’t have manners my mom will kill me lol

[tonamimargaux]

Good luck Barry ;)