What are your thoughts on this situation?

[Anonymous]

I started talking to a guy 2 months ago. We spoke on and off and on social media I posted pics of my nephew. He thought I had a child so he became distant and started dating other women. Recently he explained how he thought I had a child. Which led to him seeing someone else. So I clarified that it wasn't mine. He said he came back because he always thinks about me all the time. How should I deal with this?

[SnowedIn]

I'm not sure I see a red flag here other than he made an assumption about a child. I think it requires some real open communication with him about two things: 1) why the assumption -- how hard would it have been to have asked you "who's the kid?"; and 2) does he have an issue with kids.

But certainly worth a conversation with him, particularly if he was enjoyable to begin with.

[kylee2437]

I would ignore him. If he’s quick to jump to conclusions instead of asking questions, he doesn’t seem like a valuable guy to date. Lacks communication and makes excuses. He showed you why he’s single.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t take him on as a partner. Who knows what else he’ll assume and how he’ll react on his assumptions. Communication is key but he sabotaged it now. His loss…. Move along girl..

[SnowedIn]

Why did you post this a second time? Did the answers we gave you the first time not help you?

@PrettyPriya

[Asker]

no they did not help lol

[SnowedIn]

Not sure what more you're looking for. In Trance and I gave you good answers. What is the answer you want?

[spartan55]

@asker
You probably didn't even read them.

[PrettyPriya]

Oh, so trolling then are we asker?

[PrettyPriya]

I guess I don’t deserve an answer. I will confer with another moderator as to what to do with this spamming. @Agape93

[Agape93]

Tag it as trolling, I say. Lordy I am too tired for stupid shit today

[spartan55]

What do you mean 'deal with it'?

[In_Trance]

He's seeing someone else!!!

[Asker]

but he's talking to me. These people r crazy lol