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Women are entitled and spoiled. Guys give them to much attention and therefore they don’t need to date. They simply go from fuck boi to fuck boi until they find a guy with enough money to make them ‘fall in love’
Reminds me how I look at the Dynamics of seduction and attraction and courtship from a different mindset or perspective now
If they are excited at first but then fade you need to work on being more interesting to them.
I think you could possibly have a red flag you’re not aware of; or you just haven’t found someone you’re compatible with and that’s ok
Dude just stop trying. What makes you think most women are even worth it nowadays? Just focus on your own life and stop worrying about college women. Most of them are skanky anyway.
If you don’t believe me @KrakenAttackin knows all about this stuff
Since you get to talk to them then your looks are alright, so it must be your personality I don't know what you're missing but it's fixable so just try to find your weaknesses and work on them
Coz you're finding them and not letting them find you.
Just socialize. Just ask em for a cup of coffee and say it's your treat and pretend to discuss about some uni stuff. Then just pop in some random fax.
Well I've only been attracted to 6ft plus men myself but maybe you are boring them.
if you have to struggle to find one then you're playing a rigged game. give up.
Based on the last census of planet earth guys are 2:1.
You’re probably awkward if you’re at a big university, you shouldn’t have any problems
Guys have no confidence anymore. They complain and whine too much about gold diggers.
Lol and its always the guys who dont have money who complain.
Yeah because we want to be judged on our personalities and not our bank account. But fuck us right?
@Juxtapose Then you should be glad that gold diggers aren't going after you since you dont want that. Right?
@suzzieQ sure, but it doesn't mean that I don't feel revulsion every time I encounter them.
@Juxtapose Then dont engage... lol It's not like they are after you
@suzzieQ if you don't call out bad parts of toxic culture then you can't complain when it spreads. Anytime I see shallow behavior I'm going to point it out as I please.
@Juxtapose Can I follow you?
@oceanAndSeas ohhh so this was the comment!
Of course you can, you don't need my permission.
@Juxtapose Yup 😂
@Juxtapose lol okay. Sure, but why complain about something that doesn’t even affect you? Men who engage with gold diggers want to, there is nothing wrong or toxic about it as long as it’s all consensual.
@suzzieQ yeah right, like most of these gold diggers are even honest with their intentions 🥴 They're as honest as these douchebag guys who claim to love you but only want pussy.
And yeah it does affect me because we have to share the same world and I don't like shallow behavior. I will call out guys who use women for sex as well, I don't like any of this hookup culture bullshit. I used to think people could have free love and just chill but people are instead using each other and being Machiavellian little cunts and dicks.
It's so trashy, I'll publicly shame it whenever I see it because I don't want that in my culture. American culture is already rotting from the inside out as it is.
@Juxtapose Well it doesn't take a genius to figure it out if someone is after you for the money. Lol
I dont like lots of things, but I'm not entitled to tell people who are living their lives just because I dont like it and neither are you. As long as it is consensual there is nothing wrong with it. Manipulation is wrong, but a legal consensual arrangement between two adults is none of your business and you have no right to dictate how people live their lives.
If you don't like shallow behavior than avoid people who are. It's that simple.
@suzzieQ The gold digger argument never gets old especially with men who stock shelves at Walmart. You'll never hear a millionaire complain about gold diggers lol
@suzzieQ I'm entitled to tell people whatever I please because of the first amendment. They don't have to listen to me of course.
There's a massive culture war going on and I am out to win hearts and minds to the side of light.
I guess millionaires are too busy to even spit on gold diggers?
@Juxtapose lol of course freedom of speech is protected, but that doesn’t give you the right to dictate how people live their lives. There is always a culture war and everyone thinks their side is the right side. @cheetocandle is right, why is it generally then men that gold diggers don’t want, the ones who are most vocal about it about gold diggers?
Could it possible be because they aren’t her preferred demographic thus removing her from his pool of women to chose from? That’s my theory.
@suzzieQ how can I dictate anything when I don't have any authority? The most power I have is social shaming.
The man that gold diggers want the least are men with character because they are not obsessed with money. People obsessed with money and power tend to be pretty shitty.
Those attracted to power and money tend to be the least deserving of it.
@oceanAndSeas or maybe because they recognize that will always be people who will be attracted to you because of what you can offer them, and they are either okay with that kind of arrangement because it benefits them not the average Joe or they just avoid those kind of people.
@Juxtapose everyone is attracted to power and money… money is power.
@suzzieQ not me, I grew up around riches and it never fascinated me. Depth of character and meaning does.
@Juxtapose so you don’t have a job? You don’t have any source of income? I doubt that
@suzzieQ there's a difference between staying alive and chasing material goods.
And I didn’t say fascinate, I said attracted to. They are not synonymous.
@suzzieQ well my opinion remains unchanged, I don't seek out vast amounts of wealth and I'm not attracted to it. I think it's actually a burden.
@Juxtapose lol that’s great, you don’t have to. You have what you want, so why are you demonizing others for perusing what they want.
It sounds like you are living the lifestyle that you want, so why is it wrong for someone else to peruse the lifestyle they want as long as they aren’t hurting anyone?
@suzzieQ if this was only about consensual relationships with no deception then I would not be having this discussion with you. I don't blame you women for complaining about guys who are only after sex because they are very deceptive just like a lot of women who are only after money are very deceptive.
@suzzieQ I guess they stay away from Gold Diggers as they would not want someone coming after the wealth they have accumulated. If they want only sex, they can buy it easily. Those looking for a true companionship, no matter millionaires or your average Joe, truly despise Gold diggers. Gold digging means disguising as a life companion but in fact coming for wealth.
@suzzieQ its the deception that is the problem. Due to this, honesty becomes rare and people are hurt emotionally, financially or in some other way. Distrust takes root in the society. People stop believing each other and as a result, they stop helping or caring for each other. If someone makes a consensual arrangement, then it becomes prostitution or sugar daddy type thing, not gold digging.
@Juxtapose so then you don’t have a an issue with gold diggers you have an issue with liars and manipulative people?
@oceanAndSeas that’s right, you’re guessing. You don’t know. People like things that benefit them, so is there really an issue if it’s a legal, consensual, mutually beneficial arrangement?
No one has or can have any problem with consensual or legal arrangement etc as long as both are clear what they are going to get. I think we were discussing gold diggers. Gold digging is deceptive. Disguising as a partner but actually coming for wealth. That’s it
by the way, guessing what?
@oceanAndSeas except gold digger is defined as “ a person who forms a relationship with another purely to extract money from them.” which doesn’t automatically mean manipulative. Gold digger and manipulative aren’t synonymous.
Here we dive into dictionaries 😂 Does that mean Gold digger and prostitute is synonymous then?
@oceanAndSeas by definition they are not
You just proved my point dear. Take care 👋
@oceanAndSeas You had a point? lol
Bet you're a nice guy. Don't be so nice, be exciting.
He's not nice... just boring
@PinkRose24 nice and "nice guy" aren't the same thing. But yes definitely boring.
Just say incel
Off the top... I'd say you're most likely passing up good prospects for surface level issues.
Try being in your 40's and still having a hard time with this.
Simple women are attracted to money and status not your physique
You answered your own question. You're boring.
LOL.
Your vibe runs them off. They sense you want sex. Try to future fake them instead
Because this society is trashhhh.. if you want to be interesting you have to become more trash. Trash people really get famous and get rich in our cursed society.